If your moirail disappears, how long should you wait before deciding to move on?
That depends a lot on who you and your moirail are and how they disappeared! Â The upper nobility might have sweeps to waste waiting and searching for a long-lost flame, and might even find them again, but down in the mud sometimes people just disappear and thereâs nothing you can do!
Make sure youâve checked every appropriate avenue of investigation before losing hope! Â Ask every member of their clade, even the ones you donât like or talk to much, just to be completely certain! Â Look into every recent piece of drama or gossip thatâs been circulating among groups theyâre part of â at hive, in their clade, and in their workplaces especially, and donât be afraid to ask for help if you can afford the cost! Â Once thatâs done, you might have some valuable suspicions to take to your local legislacterators or subjuggulators to try and find your lost love.
If none of that pans out, and all youâre left with is waiting?  WellâŚ.  Ask yourself how the lack of a moirail is influencing your life.  Can you stand waiting for them?  Are there other trolls, ready and willing to help you through this tragic time, that might leave or quadrant elsewhere, if you donât hop on the chance now?  How many people will die because you arenât being soothed (or soothing others!) properly, while you wait for someone specific to waltz back into your life?
Youâre the only one who can answer this question, but when the cost of being single starts getting too high (and if youâre asking yourself this question â face it, youâre probably single now), thatâs the time to start thinking about moving on. Â Seek help from a friend, and kindle something new, when youâre ready.
- Adjutant Bauble, TGM Social Media Team