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As other people need to separate Mun and Muse, the Mun themselves need to separate themselves from the Muse as well.
I get it, we all get attached to our characters and we love them very much but there has to be a level where you can step back from the character and realize they are *ficitonal* and that *they arenât you*. When someone does something bad to your OC or Muse they arenât attacking you as a person.
While I love Missi, I do see her as that, she is separate from myself despite how much of myself I project onto her and how much I have built her up to be. So if someone hates her, is rude to her, I donât take it personally because these are just characters.
Now Iâm not saying you should disregard characters entirely because theyâre fictional or that what they do doesnât matter and canât impact you, no. Iâm saying that however important a character is; life wonât work out like a fairy tale and if you wish to cover certain topics, be a dick, or be evil you have to face the fact people wonât like your muse which is fine, but it doesnât mean they donât like you as a person and you shouldnât be throwing a tantrum because â oh no, that muse doesnât like my OC/Muse!! â
People need to suck up the actions done and deal with the fact not everyone is going to get along, Muses wonât like each other, but that doesnât mean theyâre taking it out on the Mun.