#ransom asks

oh absolutely!!!!! i ignore pieces of canon all the time!!! i change ‘em, i twist ‘em around, i throw ‘em out completely. no shame in it!!!

according to me! for my Marvel ships... Thanos is just. not around. it is not convenient to me. Bucky never got dusted, Steve’s young and stayed in modern time, Tony’s alive and well. So is Nat. and Loki. Bruce is Bruce and Hulk is Hulk, they’re still separate. Clint’s not a murderer? instead of going straight from Wakanda and into a war, Bucky returned to New York with Steve after Shuri got HYDRA out of his head. he and Tony were able to find some peace. everyone hangs out at the compound and is in THERAPY. 

and then for my Knives Out ships... Ransom’s also not a murderer? or if he IS then he kills someone else besides his grandfather because his grandpa seems cool and i want to hang with him. he also doesn’t get cut off from his grandpa’s funds because he’s more fun when he’s rich AND he definitely doesn’t go to prison (or if he does it’s for a very short amount of time) because that would cramp my style. 

i mostly follow canon for my ship with Frank but. in the movie he had a romance with someone and at the end of the film their relationship is left kind of ambiguously so i’ve taken it upon myself to confirm that they are absolutely no longer together. according to me, the fact that they were ever together in the first place is. questionable. i may erase it completely. who knows.

ANYWAY. all this to say!!! yes, i do ignore canon!!! sometimes i play into it when i have an idea for specific content (ex. i decide i want to write about Bucky and i reuniting after Endgame or something) but when it’s not convenient to me or i don’t fit into it well then i adapt it. that’s what’s so fun about self shipping!!! i can do whatever i want!!!

hey @lovesick-clownlord !!!

ahhh thank you for thinking of me!!! it makes me feel so special to be associated with that boy... i just love him!!! there are no words to describe how happy it makes me that even one person thinks of me when they hear his name!!! 💗💗💗

💗hi hi hi ghost gf anon!!! 💗

it is MORE than okay if you ask me things!!! thank you so so SO much for giving me the opportunity to talk about them!!! thank you for supporting us!!! i truly can’t tell you how much that means to me!!! ALSO. this is blog supports the use of excess exclamation points. there is no such thing as too many!!! 💗

gosh, this is a good question!!!

i think my favorite thing to do with Bucky is to just curl up and cuddle with him!!! it’s so simple, but sometimes our lives get so busy and we get so overwhelmed and the thing that soothes it the most is just being able to be together, being alone, being close, being comfortable. being in his arms is the safest place in the world, and it’s nice just to touch his face and play with his hair and talk to him about anything and everything! when we’re wrapped up together i’m completely at peace!!!

when it comes to Frank, i just love being outside with him. i honestly think of Frank as sunshine personified... he just makes me feel warm whenever i’m with him, like every hour is golden hour, so it just seems fitting to be under the sun with him!!! he repairs boats for a living and sometimes we’ll take ‘em for a test drive out on the water, we’ll bring Mary along and find a place to quiet place to park so she can play in the sand. sometimes Frank and i will play with her and we’ll collect shells or build castles and other times he’ll bring a book and just read to me with my head in his lap. it’s such a happy and freeing thing to do!!!

and then for Ransom, by far my favorite thing to do with him is go for drives. he takes such pride in his cars and loves driving them, which works for me!!! because i love getting comfortable in the passenger seat with the windows rolled down. whenever he needs to blow off steam we’ll get into his BMW and take back roads so he can go fast. it’s a total rush which is kind of fitting for who he is as a person and what our relationship is like... plus he lets me choose the music so i don’t complain!!!