1. What do they like to talk about?
Anything that isn't work, really. Because since they work together, they just kind of get sick of talking about it. They both really like documentaries and history though so I imagine they talk about those a lot.
2. What don’t they talk about?
Their families, dude. Like, Stefan's an only child; and his parents basically only had him to take over the family's company. And like, he likes his parents...? But he's not particularly close with them, y'know?
And Cassie feels kinda similar but not for the same reasons? Cassie has got three other siblings and she gets along decently with them? At least better than she does with her parents, probably. But her parents and her just do not have the same viewpoints at all.
Like whenever they vaguely reference their families the other is like "Wait, say what?"
3. What have each of them given up for each other?
Cassie gave up going to college because he offered her a job and a place to live. Like, this was wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy before they got together but I suppose it counts still?
Stefan has given up on having in-laws that approve of him. He owns a highly successful company, lives in a mansion; and all her parents can do is laugh at the fact that he has never used a gun so they buy him one for Christmas.
4. What compromises have they made with each other?
Well, having Jasper was sort of a compromise...?
But uh probably the fact that when he offered her a job and place to live, she would only accept if Kate could live there too--mostly because Kate had been sharing an apartment with her at the time and she didn't want to ditch her. Also sharing a house with just Stefan would be weird what the heck.
Stefan eventually has to compromise that he can't go on a business trip alone if it's longer than a week. Because even though Cassie can manage on her own, she doesn't like having the house to herself for longer than that.
5. Do each of them know how the other takes their tea/coffee/other?
Stefan (after a little trial and error) knows that Cassie prefers Jasmine tea.
Cassie's pretty sure it's favorite too...? He usually makes himself some too. But sometimes he has green tea so she's not entirely sure.
6. How much do they trust each other?
After living with and getting used to each other? Quite a bit. Mostly because they just come to understand one another better. Neither one of them would have expected this result initially though.
7. In what ways do they prefer to show affection for each other?
Stefan, growing up the way he did, definitely shows affection through, like, material gifts. Originally it's just like usual stupid stuff that, though she appreciates him getting it, it's not stuff Cassie really wants. Like, flowers, jewelry and whatever else. But eventually he picks up on it and actually gets stuff she likes even if he feels like they're just cheap presents. Like, those vanilla scented candles she likes. Ramen noodles since she was talking about craving some the day before
Cassie though is definitely more of a physical affection kind of person. But really only in private. Never in public nooooooo. In public, she definitely shows her affection more through teasing and poking fun at him. Don't get me wrong she'll do it in private too. But she does it a lot more in public.
8. Do either have habits that annoy the other?
Cassie really likes to make fun of the fact that Stefan has grey hair at his young age. Genetics suck. She can hardly cook anything without it burning or being under-cooked. Once she starts drinking alcohol, she does not want to stop.
Stefan has this really annoying tendency when he's working at home to just tune absolutely everything out even without music or anything to distract him. And when you're trying to get his attention? It is a tad annoying. He's a bit short-tempered. And he leaves his toothbrush on the counter rather than putting it in a cup or something. Like, really, who even does that??
9. What habits does each find endearing in each other?
Stefan's got this really sarcastic sometimes even dark sense of humor that will just make Cassie laugh every time. When she talks to him while he's reading, he'll look up over the rims of his glasses instead of lifting his chin. And a lot of times when he's really happy and can't help smiling, he'll bring a hand up to cover his mouth to hide it rather than just outright smile.
Cassie has, what Stefan feels, is an infectious laugh; because sometimes he'll make a snarky comment and she'll laugh at it and even though he doesn't find it too funny he'll wind up laughing too. When she gets angry, she has this tendency to say whatever comes to her mind even if it's something she doesn't want to say or won't help her point at all. It's like she can't lie when she's angry. Sometimes when she tries to embarrass him, she ends up feeling more embarrassed than he does. He thinks it's kinda cute...
10. What is the division of power like in the relationship?
Probably like 55-45...? Like, idk it's pretty close to even and probably fluctuates between the two a lot tbh