im sorry for interacting while being radqueer but i really wanna talk about this the only reason im in the radqueer community is for the transid aspect. i know labels like desirdae (sorry if i spelled it wrong) exist but the thing is i genuinely want to transition to my transids like transrace, transabled, etc and i dont think anyone else would accept me for that other than radqueers. some of the things they do are absolutely vile but its the only place i wouldnt be harassed and told to kill myself for wanting to be asian or wanting to have did..
I remember talking to another radqueer about a similar situation and they ended up choosing a alternative term (unsure as to which one if I can find the post ill edit it here) and they felt welcomed in that community because people acknowledged that becoming certain things does cause harm, but wanting to be those things isn't harmful
I would talk to someone within those alternative terms communities because they know far more than I do












