#queer inclusivity

just a handy little info chart on the spectrums of sexuality.

Boyfemme pride flag

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individuals who are femme and male/masculine or use masc. terms for themselves.

Color meanings (from top to bottom):

• 1: queer femininity & boyfemmes of all kinds

• 2: self-love

• 3: gender nonconformity

• 4: intersex, trans, bipoc, indigenous & marginalised boyfemmes

• 5: man/masc gender identity or a connection to manhood/masculinity, etc.

• 6: femme power & androgyny

Symbol

tag-list: @radiomogai, @imoga-pride, @daybreakthing, @discrophy, @themogaidragon, @rwuffles, @charlie-lottie.

free to use. no credit needed, but it would be appreciated.

Happy Pride Month to all who misjudged what the people around them supported and came out, only to find out what their family or friends truly thought.

Happy Pride Month to people who never plan to come out to their family or friends.

Happy Pride Month to Transgender and Non-binary people who can't transition for their own safety.

Happy Pride Month to the Transgender and Non-binary people who detransitioned for their own safety.

Happy Pride Month to queer children and teens who are trying their hardest to survive, bigoted family knowing of their queerness or not.

Happy Pride Month to people who's queerness was denied in every possible way when they came out.

Happy Pride Month to people who's queerness is treated as a joke, not real, or "invalid."

this was one of my very first drawings centered around good-faith label pride since i had first come out in november of 2024. i had initially experienced a lot of backlash & lost many people i had once considered good friends around this time. feeling a lot of shame, yet optimism, i drew this piece featuring the bi gay flag. though i no longer use the label since discovering gaybian & finding that more fitting, i still love this one! i might consider redrawing it for my coming out anniversary <3

another drawing made in response to my coming out. instead, this one features the colors of the inclusive transfem flag, as i am intersex & often excluded from the label. its simply a reminder that no one has any right to speak over your identity - only YOU know who you are. i may be in a gloomy place, but inside i am beautiful & shining & complex

this one heavily coincided with queer discourse happening at the time, hence the use of the lesboy flag. i feel its common, especially amongst younger queers, to misunderstand what queerness actually is - there are no norms to be established or built up when this community has spent its entire history breaking them down

this one was drawn just after trans visibility day, with a cameo from my cowsona, bear, & our headmate, udo (though, this was drawn before i came out as a system)! from left to right, featured are the pangender, inclusive transfem, xenogender, genderqueer, transfem & intersex trans flags. its certainly uncommon to depict more obscure identities in trans pride art, & this was a means to combat that! celebrate all your trans friends & all trans identities always!!!

another drawing featuring udo before we had come out. obviously featuring the gaybian flag! this was around the time i gained a lot of confidence for my identity, & wanted to make that known! this was also my most popular drawing from 2025 on tiktok at the time, as it garnered a lot of discussion of the label. i ended up educating hundreds, hell even thousands, more on my identity, & i am forever grateful that i have the platform to do so <3

my first pride drawing to actually feature myself! featuring the transfem flag, it serves as a reminder that all transitions are unique! i believe depicting myself here was especially important as i am a masc-presenting transfem gal. you can present or transition however makes you happy, it doesnt make you any less you!

this one was ... deeply controversial to say the least. unfortunately, this drawing fell into the wrong hands, being shared across numerous transmedicalist subreddits & twitter spaces. its still being reposted to those areas as of today. this was meant to be another piece celebrating my masculinity & unconventional appearance as, not just a trans person, but a woman in all regards. i am a fat, hairy woman & i could not be prouder of that fact!!!

this one ended up receiving a lot of comparisons to trans caricatures in those aforementioned spaces, despite it quite literally just being me & how i look. i am in fact a real person, sorry!

simply a response to .. anti-futch discourse? im surprised too, i had no idea how controversial this label was to exclusionists, but i cant say im too surprised. another reminder that no one can tell you who you are, especially a stranger on the internet who has never met you before

could you believe this was another response to discourse? im surprised too /sarc. a common argument against lesboys is the lack of discourse or visibility of turigirls/gaygirls, which only reveals their ignorance of queer history. its true that gaygirls are often underrepresented in online queer spaces, but we are still very real. the lack of discussion revolving around us is simply over the fact that gay separatism doesnt exist, or at least not to the scale of its lesbian equivalent. its all a testament to the importance of visibility

thank you for scrolling !!! <3

my main art blog: @422kit

neotrans / neotrans* : an umbrella term for all individuals who seek to embrace their own gender and sex nonconformity**; regardless of identity, expression, or physical traits.

neotransgender: a term for any individual whose experience of gender does not align with social expectations based on sex or gender assignment, socially imposed gender identity or roles, and innate sex characteristics; regardless of nouns or pronouns utilized to describe gender identity (sic. experience of gender).

neotranssexual: a term for any individual whose relationship to their body does not align with social expectations based on sex or gender assignment, socially imposed gender identity or roles, and innate sex characteristics; regardless of nouns or pronouns utilized to describe gender identity (sic. experience of gender).

neotransmasculine: a term for any trans individual whose identity or desired transition involves masculinity of any kind; regardless of physical appearance. (neotransmasc)

neotransfeminine: a term for any trans individual whose identity or desired transition involves femininity of any kind; regardless of physical appearance. (neotransfem)

neoagender: a term for any individual who does not experience an innate sense of gender; may or may not choose to perform gender, identify with gendered terminology, or transition (internally, socially, medically, or legally).

neogenderfluid: a term for any individual whose relationship to gender changes over any given period of time (minutes, days, years, etc.); may or may not choose to alter performance of gender, terminology, or transition.

(and so on, through the transgender and transsexual modalities)

**i am defining gender and sex nonconformity here as a experience of body and mind which does not conform to the sex-gender binary -- defining transness not just by incongruent identity compared to birth assignment -- but more so the queer self expression, transgressive social roles/systems, and acceptance of divergent sex traits that drive our community forward.

in my full uncensored opinion: we are shooting ourselves in the foot by treating verbally communicable internal experiences like the end all be all of transness -- while defining our existence primarily by association with binary concepts and gender-sex categorization at birth -- and treating nonbinary and intersex people like afterthoughts, despite us being seen as "proof" or the binaries falsehoods -- when All Of Us Are Proof.

it is ass backwards**

I love how each and every one of us has our own unique experience with our queerness

It truly inspires me every time to think about it, because even if all of us are different in one way or another we’re still part of the same community, we’re still a family in a sense.

That’s why is saddens me when I see so many other queer people cast people from the community because their experience with their gender and sexuality doesn’t align with their own experiences/what they expect that person’s experience to be.