So my daughter is 12, her ex step mom is still a part of her life cause she lives with her dad primarily. This woman treats my boys like crap while treating my daughter like gold. And then has my own child hating me.. I gave my daughter a neckless and while they were in town for her ball game the other day she brought my daughter to my house they busted the neckless and threw it in my yard... Who does that??? Who encourages a child to treat the woman who carried them and gave birth to them that way. And her dad does nothing because she is his cash cow.... I gave him these babies... Not her... Money isn't everything. Love and respect is.. And this man, he is a decon in his church and comes at me screaming and cussing... Seriously... Like he needs to step back and find some Jesus before he talks to me.... I'm just sick about it all... Fed up... Tired... Torn down.... Cried out .. They are telling my kids all I have ever done is get high and fall asleep... I did drugs while I was pregnant.. Today they told my son I followed the ex step mom around yesterday but actually I was working all day... I need a lawyer... Or something .. Because enough is enough.. Isn't it mental abuse what they are doing talking to my kids about their mother like they are. Filling their heads with lies to try and make them hate me and themselves look better... I have no problems telling my kids I have never been perfect. After a surgery (when they already moved to their dad's) I got addicted to my pain meds. It lasted two weeks and I reached out for help... Yes I have made mistakes... I'm not perfect. I hate cleaning house every day so I don't have a spotless house. I don't put away laundry as soon as it comes out of the dryer... I go to bed with dirty dishes... But I love my kids more than anything in this world... But what I would never dream about doing is telling them lies or hurting them by making them hate the half of themself that is their father to only make myself look better or to feel better about myself... I feel like it takes a very insecure person to need to do this... But, I will be going to court... One way or another... Enough is enough and its time I stand up for myself and show my children bullying in no form is okay... No matter who it is... My 15 and 13 year old boys are so angry because of this.
