"Pushed over..."
If you feel like the person you like pushes you to the side, gives you the "okie doke", and you feel, I don't know, somewhat forgotten, what would you do? How would you feel? Would you still be into that someone who you feel like doesn't give you your time of day? For me personally, I always make sure the person I like is never forgotten, is shown that I'm always thinking of them, make them feel like.. I don't know, that they're still a special thought in my day. I'm big on communication and if there's a lack of communication, even in regards to efforts being made between the two, I guess it just means that one person cares a little bit more than the other. And sometimes that's where things would get messed up. Too much expectation you'd say. But if you feel like you give your time of day, your sacrifices to let them feel important in your life and in your thoughts, I feel it is respectful and equal enough to feel and see that kind of effort back. If not, let yourself know what you feel like you deserve. Tell that to the person you like, if they understand and show you efforts, they're a keeper, maybe continue, it shows consistency. And if they don't, you're only an okie doke. You're only a sideline. And do you think you deserve to feel that way.. at all?Β
Because after all.. actions speak louder than words.Β











