Submissive Mantras
It's been a while since I've been fully immersed in our traditional power exchange, but I've been enjoying our excursion into new things. That being said, I wanted to share the mantras that I use to self-coach my traditional submission throughout the day and week:
Protect His Property
Serve Your Family
Maintain Your Sexual Health
Protect His Property This includes taking care of my body and my mental health. Drinking water, eating healthy, exercise, taking vitamins, attending therapy, practicing mindfulness, and maintaining my appearance are all ways to show that I respect his property. A subcategory of this is preserving my body for future childbearing or caring for myself while pregnant.
Serve Your Family All the household chores and childcare tasks that sometimes require additional motivation fall into this category. I rarely derive joy from cleaning, doing laundry, etc. but repeating this mantra can at least help me feel satisfaction from completing each task. Sometimes it can take alignment and encouragement for me to show up authentically and eagerly as a wife and mother during tough times, so this mantra can perk me up in that way as well.
Maintain Your Sexual Health In a summary, this is edging and maintaining his denial rule. It is also exploring porn and erotica to find inspiration and dedicating creative energy to that mental space regularly. Because I am on the ace spectrum, it's pretty simple for me to "forget" about my sexuality unless I'm tending to it like this. Spending too much time here can dull my performance in my other mantra areas, so I have to balance it.
