#pterospeaks

hey my wife has been unemployed for 3 months after being fired during a medical emergency, and we need like 300 bucks to meet may rent. pp is scarletth, and vm and cash are both scarletto.

will not co-opt a trans woman's post for cis whining, but wrt my last reblog it really is just like. this weird gender space isn't it? to be a gender-non-conforming woman who is solidly a woman and chooses actively to be a woman. and in that way i relate so much to even non-butch transfems because literally even by well-meaning lgbt people, i get lumped in with manhood so often just because of my masculinity. and then barred or alienated from "inherently womanly" things because of this perceived proximity to manhood. despite still either needing to participate in them (public bathrooms, period discussions) or wanting to engage with them ("feminine" hobbies or interests, discussions about feminism).