Men and Smut: Ombree Edition
So Iāve gotten a lot of requests recently private and ask wise (which Iāll be answering for the clerith fandom soon) on how I write smut and more specifically how I write smut from the male POV.
Keep in mind I am a tiny five foot, twenty-six year old white woman who lives in the middle of nowhere and have never been a man. What I say here is all purely my own thoughts. I have never actually asked a dude Iāve dated any of this shit, and so a lot of it is pure assumption on my part. Iām sharing this with both clerith, and sasusaku since theyāre my primary writing fandoms.
If a male would like to confirm, deny, or approve any of these. Please be my goddamn guest because usually fandomw riters are females and we all literally could use an education on this. Truest of stories.
So how do I do smut from the male perspective and what I think men feel?
As weird as it sounds I tend to envision myself as if I was a dude, and how I think things like touch, and feeling would translate. Realistically men are born females before transitioning genetically to women while in the womb. So the feeling to a point should be similar. I assume the idea that everything feels hot, or even tender would be the route to go.
I've often seen how it's described that basically the penis is the same as the vagina just more of a protruding organ. Men as we both know become enlarged either in girth, or length or both with sexual stimulation. The penis is a massively sensitive organ for men. Since blood pools there it can be expected to be the sensation similar to pulsing that brings about sexual pleasure similar to that of a woman when say her clit is being played with or in my experience when I'm physically being penetrated since tbh I hate having my clit touched.
I'd say go with things like tense body sensations, an almost icy hot type of moment, and even things like it being warm or wet. For orgasms it's that literal build up from being stroked with a certain level of consistency, but also a level of inconsistency. Women naturally expand as they become excited and have their own orgasms. This adds depth of their sexual organ as well as adds more lubrication. That's where the inconsistency I think would come for men. Keep in mind though there are men that can't come because of those two factors. It's not by lack of effort on the female but more of a sensation that cause issues for the male to maintain a the feeling the needed.
The excitement though is major factor. Men are visual a good portion of the time and so unlike women they need visual and touch to get to the point where it all builds up and then explodes. Men also don't ejaculate all at once it's almost in spurts and typically seem to need to actually ride it out. I personally have had dudes who almost like freak if you stop moving as they're coming because they need a pace to continue to come. A couple strokes and then the ride down is how I've always seen it and felt as the partner.
. . . thatās all I got. Now go forth and write those male pov smut fics, my dudes. Got more questions on how I do things? Ask away.















