#propegender

Privagender: A gender personal to you that you're not so comfortable outside people seeing/acknowledging for whatever reason (besides being closeted or fearing oppressors). this can be anywhere from not wanting to be called x gender to wanting people to ignore that you're x gender at all.

Usually you have another gender as well that isn't private, but you don't need to.

Propegender: Varying between very feminine boy, very masculine girl and/or a gray area in between.

From the word "prope", which is Latin for ‘near’ or ‘not very far’, as the gender rarely strays too far towards either binary.

Protogender: Feeling like one’s gender is incomplete or in its early stages.

Gendernocturne: A gender that is individual to the user and typically similar to "genderminor" and is closely connected to nighttime.

Gendersonata: A gender that is individual to the user and typically allegro, or could be described as "fast" and "lively".

Immemorgender: After the latin word “Immemor” which means “To Strum”: A gender which associates itself with the strumming movement of stringed instruments like guitars, banjos, etc.

[Full list of terms are in the google docs if you don’t want to wait for the next posts]

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I was kind of in a similar situation before, except for the liking people as the same gender thing. I eventually settled with nonvirmina/nonpuerella, which is a gender with masculine and feminine qualities that doesn’t have to do with binary genders at all.

But I can think of other labels that may feel more accurate to you:

Bigenderflux: You have two genders, but the intensity of those fluctuate. For instance, you may be 80% boy and 20% girl at one time, 50% fo each another time, then 95% girl and 5% boy another time. (Bigenderflux may also mean you fluctuate between those two genders and agender, while bigenderfluid means you may be 100% one gender or 100% another gender at times.)

Propegender: "Varying between very feminine boy, very masculine girl and/or a gray area in between.From the word ""prope"", which is Latin for ‘near’ or ‘not very far’, as the gender rarely strays too far towards either binary."

Omnigay: “Genderfluid, with one’s attraction to other genders changing with one’s gender so that the individual is always attracted to the same gender.” Omnigay may be used as both orientation and gender; some omnigay people say their gender changes because of their attraction, while other omnigay people say their orientation changes because of their gender.

Plugender: ““Plu” meaning “more” (as in ‘plural gender’ or 'plus gender’); may be used to describe those who have multiple genders, or who sees their gender as being one multifaceted thing, possibly comprising multiple genders into one. “

Ambonec: “Gender identity in which one identifies as a combination of male and female, but also identifies as neither gender.“

Razorgender: “A gender that is sharp and singular, yet moves swiftly. For example, you may feel intensely and definitively agender for a short while, but then quickly move to being intensely and definitively bigender.“

Ambigender: “A feeling of two genders simultaneously, without fluidity/shifting. May be used synonymously, in some cases, with bigender. “

Attrafluid: “Describes someone whose gender changes to be the same as or similar to the gender(s) they’re attracted to at the moment.

Note: the “fluid” part can be replaced with “flux” to signify that your gender fluctuates based on what gender(s) you’re attracted to at the moment.

Note: this gender is intended for bi/pan/poly individuals whose preferences (if they have any) are fluid but if you feel that your orientation as a whole is fluid then feel free to use them.“

Hope that helped!

So it sounds like you are some sort of Genderfluid, as your gender switches. This could be in combination with Transexpressive, which is a fluid gender expression. 

 Another term you may find useful is Propegender. This is described as “varying between very feminine boy, very masculine girl, and/or grey area in-between.”