1) He makes sure I'm looking after myself, even if he's not looking after himself properly by doing it. Be it giving me the last sip of the drink or the first bite of food, taking me away from big crowds or helping me dress my hand when I've cut it.
2) He holds my hand when I'm scared, even if it's over really stupid things like the whistle at the train station or when someone in a big group makes me nervous or uncomfortable for whatever reason, or even when there's an emergency service vehicle nearby.
3) He checked my bath water for me because the muscle stuff I put in was deep red and I was (and still sorta am) severely triggered by blood following an incident at work.
4) Sometimes I get really whiny and annoying and put my hand in the pocket his comfort stuff is in but he still hugs me and kisses me as if it's not annoying or a problem (even though his comfort stuff is for him only).
5) When I lost my Moomin he calmed me down and then came on a hunt for him with me, because he knew exactly how much it meant to me to have Moomin in the crowds at that time.
6) Even though I'm a little shit he asked if I could move in with him and his family, so that I can get away from an emotionally abusive and transphobic family, and have as little stress as possible before the start of my university course.
7) He offered to come to the clinic with me because I was really scared to go on my own, even though he would probably be in school at the time and doesn't really have a load of money to spend coming places with me.
8) He has a huge list of over forty cosplays that he wants us to do together and even offered to help me make them, as a fashion student and everything, since I have exams coming up about two weeks before the next convention starts.
9) When the cashier looks scary he asks questions for me or makes an order or helps me pay and I'm really grateful because I'm like a little child who is like 5'8" and pretty strong but unable to do basic tasks without getting scared and/or crying.
10) Although I'm not dependent on him as such he does his best to put up with me and help wherever he can even if my problems are really big and they're hard to sort out, including but not limited to dealing with my puns, being intensely gay with me, helping with my coursework and lots of snuggles.
