#princessofnothingcharming

It makes me so sad the way that you feel about Veronica Mars now (not that you’re wrong, cuz you’re not!) It’s just that I’ve been following you forever, and to see how someone I considered the BIGGEST fan is now so disgusted by it… they really fucked this fandom over. And it’s just sad!

It makes me feel sad, too, it is what I’ve been struggling with the most, even more so than the season 4 ending itself. This had never happened to me before, loving something so much for so long and being one of its biggest champions only to end up hating it so much I can’t bring myself to watch it again, let alone recommend it. It’s difficult to reconcile those two feelings - what the show used to mean to me, and what it means now. I might be able to watch the show again, in time. But almost a year later, the wounds are still too fresh and anything VM related conjures up the memory of that awful season 4 and that heartbreaking ending. And I don’t even know if I will ever be able to watch the show again without it being a constant reminder of season 4. 

why would they block you?

deanscarlett replied to your post “Shoutout to all the BTVS blogs who HAVEN’T blocked me, I honestly...”

dafuq??

distractedbythedictionary replied to your post “Shoutout to all the BTVS blogs who HAVEN’T blocked me, I honestly...”

Why were you blocked?? You’ve literally never posted anything problematic lol

princessofnothingcharming replied to your post “Shoutout to all the BTVS blogs who HAVEN’T blocked me, I honestly...”

Why the heck did you get blocked? Anti shippers?

I'm so sorry to hear that :( my condolences *sending you the biggest hug*

Thank you, *hugs back*

princessofnothingcharming replied to your post “My grandma passed away last Monday. It was the saddest thing I’ve ever...”

We don't know each other, but I'm sorry you're going through that. It's okay to wallow a little when you lose someone, but it's good that you're trying to stay positive too. Still though, I'm sorry

Thank you for such kind words.

publiclyprivat-e replied to your post “My grandma passed away last Monday. It was the saddest thing I’ve ever...”

Sometimes, we can be great at things as we grow up. We realize that as we age, there are things that we thought we can't do but we can; amazingly actually. And some... as we age, grieving if just not one of the traits. I hope you can find the courage to grief and make peace with your loss. Grief is one of things that we, human, can never do great first hand. We just scrape it on the surface and pass it on through us like a phase; ignore and never look back on it twice.

Thanks for your perspective. It also seems like, as with many other things in life, each of us have a different way to grief, so there’s no right or wrong or anything of the sort. I just wish I could make those around me feel better, even if my better might not be entirely real.

missgoalie75 replied to your post “My grandma passed away last Monday. It was the saddest thing I’ve ever...”

i'm so sorry, manu. i've lost both my grandmothers and understand the pain. try to remember that grief and coming to terms with loss is never straight forward. if you can, reach out to loved ones for support because going through it alone is so hard.