#postitforheartbreak

Why do we view breakups and unrequited love as such a bad thing? You loved someone? Good. You learned to trust? Good. You felt cherished, heard, respected, worthwhile? Good. You communicated your feelings, thoughts, frustrations, hopes, dreams? Good. You let yourself believe good things can happen? Good. You put the needs of someone else above your own? Good. You found happiness in the happiness of another? Good. You discovered that not all wounds are visible? Good. You realized that not all promises are made to be broken...but sometimes are anyway? Good. We need to stop looking down on heartbreak and remember that all it really means is that something even better will follow.