I was about to go to bed and I had a thought!! How would the LIs react if their family or friends/found family (since not every character may be on great terms with their family) didn’t like MC. I’m talking either being passive aggressive, gossiping behind her back, trying to get the LI to leave her, or being straight up cold/rude to her! Who would defend her and how? And might anyone actually listen to what their family or friends think?
what would the li's do if their parents or friends were being malicious when meeting mc?
ooh ok, that's an awesome question!
there's a few pairs of parents here i really can't see going down that route, but for the purposes of answering this ask, let's imagine, and go li by li:
bobby. with his retractive personality under the stress of new situations, i think he would paralyze on the sign of his parents not liking mc. it's hard for me to believe they would be this malicious, but if they were, bobby wouldn't know how to act or react. he might be upset but not necessarily speak up, because he never had to do it. i still don't think his parents would act this way though. as for friends... he might politely let them have it, possibly reaching passive-aggressive. kind of laughing and saying "i didn't ask... hahahahaha". he only gets confrontational when he has back up, and in this case there's no one.
carl can be really quiet and recluse but when that temper explodes, you know the time he couldn't go to the movies to see star trek in 8th grade is coming up. from "i'm not asking what you think or your blessing" to "we're leaving, and don't expect us to be back so soon" is happening. his meekness has an expiration date when it comes to bullies, and what those parents or friends are doing is exactly that! he's tired of it, and has been relevating a lot for the sake of keeping the peace. but for the one person that understands him? no fucking way he wouldn't do anything. i'm not saying he would eloquent and every word would make its way out crystal clear, but there would be a solid effort!
elisa. because she's so young she might still be the type of daughter that doesn't stand up to her parents. i can see it going really bad given she comes from a black family, and by experience i know you don't talk back. she might try to make things smooth but it could result in mc feeling attacked and leaving, elisa following her. it takes a while for you to kind of really say something, especially if your family is traditional.
gary. if there's one thing we know is that nan wouldn't talk behind mc's back! unfortunately i can see it happening, nan being mean if she didn't like mc, but gary would probably have a heated discussion with her, it would be a yelling festival of back and forth resulting in gary grabbing his coat and mc before leaving. "we're going!" would their relationship heal? yes. would he feel guilty for standing up to her? also yes. the woman raised him. would he apologize for defending mc? no, not once. his friends would never, they know the hardship it's been to meet someone that takes garebear seriously, so they wouldn't dare. either way, gary would be leaving. he saw himself retracting while in the villa and i don't think he likes what he saw, so he's changing that.
henrik. THEY WOULD NEVER, but if they did he would calmly say "well, clearly we're not welcome here." and leave. short and polite, yet decisive. the same goes for his friends.
ibrahim. this is where i hope rahim has nerves of steel, because if the timid guy that came to the villa still existed, mc would have to get an uber to go home. with him everything is a little hazy since he changed so much. i still think he wouldn't raise his voice or be able to tell people to stop, at least not on a first time. he might try, and even tell mc, to ignore it, which would cause her to leave, because even the dumbest mc in season 2 wouldn't stay for that mess. i think rahim might have a lot to grow still, especially because his brothers and father sound like the type that say "what are you getting all worked up for, it's just a joke." so i can see rahim avoiding his family for a while, until he builds up courage to say something to their faces. it's not easy in practise, it takes a while.
kassam. nope, he's not having it. on the first sign of danger he's pulling back, and not necessarily making a scene but he would leave and tell them why he's leaving. "i didn't come here for you to attack her, i wanted you to meet her because she's important to me. and since you can't show any respect for her, i don't think i can stay." kassam is not taking shit from anyone, not even his parents. and judging by his personality there must be at least one of them who's like that, so they know that would happen.
lottie. unless she didn't grow up in a goth family she's already a rebel. so if her parents said something i think she would sound almost spoiled. i don't mean that in a bad way, or even that she would pout or anything, but it could go down the "you just don't get it" route, and i'm not mad at that, because she would stand up for her girlfriend. SHE WOULD NEVER DO THIS FOR A BOY THOUGH. the moment her mom said something about the boyfriend lottie would believe her and dump his ass.
lucas. plain and simple: acting passive-aggressive back. he's a petty man and even though he's not having their shit, he wants to cook the anger before storming out, because HE WILL STORM OUT. the reason why he leaves is that he realizes the game he and his parents are playing is making mc feel uncomfortable, and that's not the first time. there will be heated follow up calls later and for the next few days but i don't reckon lucas cares about what they have to say. they're really different and see things from different pov's. lucas doesn't give a flying fuck about their opinion.
marisol. wild card. 'cause she can be very outspoken, but on the other hand she doesn't seem to know how to react when something like this happens, she might be confused about it. in this situation i think she either doesn't pick up on the malice behind the comments, or if she does, she tranquilizes her girlfriend because it's not going to change her feelings. as for defending mc? i'm not sure if it would happen. maybe something eloquent but definitely not angry, not like kassam or lucas. she never gets confrontational, even when she's right. remember when she found out about lottie and gary? marisol walked away and never spoke about it, no harm. this might be the case here. but she's not coming back either... it makes her very uncomfortable so... she's avoiding it.
noah. wild card, my dude! he can either way. i know people say he's not confrontational, but that is with girls. he's not afraid of speaking up when he sees something wrong happening in the villa. so either it gets really awkward and he leaves or he has a very eloquent speech prepared for the occasion: "i didn't bring her here to be humiliated. i wanted the people i love the most to meet the girl i love the most. if you're not open to it, then i'm sorry, but i'm not staying and listening to this, it's not right." to be fair, i sincerely doubt his parents could be this malicious, but in case it happened he either walks away in silence or just says something about it. but his opinion is being swayed about mc because of his parents, that i know for sure.
priya. she might already have fame in her family, the black sheep. 29 and not married? SCANDALOUS! /s one thing i know for sure, it's already schock enough she's bringing a woman to meet them, but i reckon she would be confrontational. priya doesn't need anyone! she doesn't give a rat's ass about they think and just brought mc as a formality, as in "listen, i'm dating a girl and that's what's going on. oooh, what's for dinner?" she would definitely storm out if the heat rose in the room, and would drag mc with her.