...and the winner is
Polygender!ย
Just a quick update if you care: Iโve spent a couple weeks hardcore paying attention to things and polygender is the best descriptor of how I experience my gender. (Although actually bigender was close, too). My ambivalence was more about the fact I never bothered to pay attention for a lot of actually really good reasons, but not so much that Iโm graygender.ย
Iโd say about 90-95% of the time I am simultaneously feeling male and female - itโs pretty static. The remainder of the time I can be more one or the other or something else IDK.ย
Pronouns: she/her OR him/his OR they/them ย (while there are times I might be feeling strongly toward one or the other, Iโm good with any of these, or really anything gender neutral)











