can repulsion fluctuate?
heck im the repulsion anon i probably should have added. is it okay to feel horrible and Never want anyone to be close to you again, but after a while you try to open up again and you want to be close to someone? im also poly-alterous and my feelings fluctuate with that as well. like βi wanna be close to this personβ and βi dont want to be close to anyoneβΒ
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Romance repulsion can definitely fluctuate, lovely. Feelings can wax and wane and change over time and thatβs totally normal. So what you describe is very much okay. If you are in alterous or other kinds of relationships with others, Iβd recommend being honest with them about how your feelings can change like this so they understand if you need space sometimes.
-Mod Michy
