#plushlove

Clawing at the earth and fucking running in circles and screaming clawing my eyes out and stabbing myself and bleeding to death because I'm so so in love with this thing

The herd grew +2 over Christmas! Now we’ve got left to right, top to bottom:

FLUFFEEEEE~

I actually don't know if the word stigma fits but that's not the point! I occasionally watch documentaries of others with Objectum. Common thoughts in the comments is *drum roll* super negative or very pity pity fueled. The videos are not sad, the people are not sad, they often aren't lonely, etc! But you will always ALWAYS see the "This is so sad, they are so sad." Are they? Are they sad? No. And it's so obvious! Smiles all around yet people think the person is sad. Often times comments will say how "Lonely" the person is, but they aren't, most documentaries I've seen are ABOUT the love between the person and the object. It's real love like really really real love but people who don't experience it or care to look into it don't understand that. They think it's delusional not attraction.

The framing and stuff in some documentaries makes it seem so..weird. Like the lady who was in love with the Eiffel Tower, they made her look so bad :( at least in my opinion. Objectum isn't a common thing people talk on, if people do so many think it's a result of delusional thoughts or a weird s*x thing!! It's not, it's a simple thing really (at least describing it in a short way).

My personal experience with people being mean to me about objectum (I have more but here's the most recent example):

Context: Plushies and Dolls (bjds mostly & monster high) have been my most common attraction!

At the time I was with a bjd, brought her everywhere! But of course I didn't tell about my love for her, one day I made a slip up. *sigh* I was talking with a friend and she asked why I brought Teris with me to her house, and why I was overly careful with her. And I accidentally said "Because I love her!" Which didn't come off as a "I like this thing because it's my thing that I own that I have a interest in." It came off as if I was talking about a partner! Which I was- she stared at me and laughed. "love love? Or like love because it made a dent in your bank account?" I hated that sentence and I still do. Teris should not be important because of "price" and Teris wasn't and still isn't and it. They knew her pronouns but still called her an it! Obviously it/its are valid pronouns when used for someone who prefers them but I don't believe Teris did. I told her I love loved Teris she laughed and called me cr*zy.

I was not am not cr*zy, objectum isn't cr*zy.

Objectum should NOT be seen as a gross taboo because it's not.