💕Name: redacted for privacy — call me by the name of your most beloved object or pet

💕Pronouns: they/he

💕Age: 28 and more of a millennial than gen z (i am Old and Tired)

💕Sexuality: gay as in transmascs, tboys, and men (but if you’re cis you gotta be at least femboy banana bread-level funky with it)

💕Identity: the kind of asian that makes you take your shoes off indoors. books and movies are a big part of my life and career.

💕Location: the cayman islands, where my registered business is to avoid taxes (thanks nordvpn)

💕When did you start watching Phan?: post-launch but i was raised by other 2010s youtubers, so i’m sure i consumed their content at some point in the early years

💕When did you join the phandom/tumblr?: i'm a new phannie but i was on tumblr through the 2010s, so like. trenches. i was not in them but i was in the trenches right next door

💕What are your favorite videos?: big, the genre of videos that is phil in front of the camera while dan makes snarky comments/hands him things from offscreen, the wdapteo cinematic universe

💕Are you more a dannie or a phillie?: i have dan's depression and devotion through acts of service; phil's belief in signs from the universe and breezy susan way of letting problems wash over me. i enjoy watching dan more because the messy ups and downs of his life are more familiar to me, while phil's quiet, steadfast support shines so brightly it hurts. i can be that kind of support for you, hold your hand in the dark and find a thousand ways to spark new light, but i need you to see what i do and want to support me through my darkness, too.

💕What other fandoms are you in?: as i’ve gotten older i’ve stepped away from fandom culture as a whole — which is not to say i'm not a fan or nerd, just that i'm not active in fandom spaces any more. talk to me instead about what you’re reading and watching, quote poetry to me, show me your crafts and collections.

💕DNI: if you are under 25 (hard cutoff: born after 2000)

💕Describe your sappy, collaboratively gay phannie daydreams: wander with me through art museums, sit with me on long train rides through unfamiliar cities, laugh with me as we fall off-balance on horses and ice skates. hold my hand and twirl me under the stars. when i come home, i'll bring you your favorite drink and pastry, press little gifts and trinkets i found throughout my day into your hand. let me love you to the level of every day's most quiet need. love me as one loves certain obscure things, secretly, between the shadow and the soul.

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