#personal dearreader

Please excuse this deep spoken [written] word narrative. I’ve been thinking so many things as the new year approaches and as I work to get goal oriented and savvy I felt it was time to throw this out there, and just maybe you can relate.

As an occasional nighttime blogger and daytime professional I fear constantly that I don’t have a grasp on what others truly feel about what I say, do and post. Do people like me? Do people care about my content? Is my voice being heard? Sometimes these questions yield silence on the other end, and we are left to fear the worst… that the answer is a resounding and painful no.

The more I think about it I somewhat want to say “who cares,” but I know deep down that I do. I want to help people, inspire them, help them find meaning and coach them to confidence and of course be appreciated for who I am as a person and creative. I want to find my own meaning in the things that I love and be able to share them in such a way that builds a community.

I guess what I’ve realized mostly during these self-reflecting conversations is, that I don’t care or shouldn’t, but more so we should not focus on if we are not liked, or immediately heard, or if people relate to our content because we are putting ourselves out there.

The vast majority we typically feel fear of or negativity from would not be willing to put themselves out there for critique or feedback to grow. They are afraid to be different, have their own voice, brand their own style and make their own rules. However we are out here doing just that.

So what I’m proposing to you, is let’s make a promise to not focus on the negative things but rejoice in the journeys that these risks take us down. Let’s keep being confident in ourselves and the positive messages we are working so hard to spread.

I know you’re tired. I know you feel overwhelmed. You may feel as though this crisis, this problem, this hard time will last forever.

It won’t. You are almost through.

You don’t just think it has been hard; it has been hard. You have been tested, tried, and retested on what you have learned.

Your beliefs and your faith have been tried in fire. You have believed, then doubted, then worked at believing some more. You have had to have faith even when you could not see or imagine what you were asked to believe. Others around you may have tried to convince you not to believe in what you were hoping you could believe.

You have had opposition. You have not gotten to this place with total support and joy. You have had to work hard, in spite of what was happening around you. Sometimes, what motivated you was anger; sometimes fear.

Things went wrong—more problems occurred than you anticipated. There were obstacles, frustrations, and annoyances en route. You did not plan on this being the way it would evolve. Much of this has been a surprise; some of it has not been at all what you desired.

Yet, it has been good. Part of you, the deepest part that knows truth, has sensed this all along, even when your head told you that things were out of whack and crazy, that there was no plan or purpose, that God had forgotten you.

So much has happened, and each incident—the most painful, the most troubling, the most surprising—has a connection. You are beginning to see and sense that.

You never dreamt things would happen this way, did you? But they did. Now you are learning the secret—they were meant to happen this way, and this way is good, better than what you expected.

You didn’t believe it would take this long, either—did you? But it did. You have learned patience.

You never thought you could have it, but now you know you do.

You have been led. Many were the moments when you thought you were forgotten, when you were convinced you had been abandoned. Now you know you have been guided.

Now things are coming into place. You are almost at the end of this phase, this difficult portion of the journey. The lesson is almost complete. You know—the lesson you fought, resisted, and insisted you could not learn. Yes, that one. You have almost mastered it.

You have been changed from the inside out. You have been moved to a different level, a higher level, a better level.

You have been climbing a mountain. It has not been easy, but mountain climbing is never easy. Now, you are near the top. A moment longer, and the victory shall be yours.

Steady your shoulders. Breathe deeply. Move forward in confidence and peace. The time is coming to relish and enjoy all which you have fought for. That time is drawing near, finally.

I know you have thought before that the time was drawing near, only to learn that it wasn’t. But now, the reward is coming. You know that too. You can feel it.

Your struggle has not been in vain. For every struggle on this journey, there is a climax, a resolution.

Peace, joy, abundant blessings, and reward are yours here on earth. Enjoy.

There will be more mountains, but now you know how to climb them. And you have learned the secret of what is at the top.