I was thinking about naruhina for a bit and I kinda realised that if it weren't for The Last I'd actually ship it a whole lot more. Both in Naruto and to an extent shippuden, it was peak 'straight ship for the gays'(in that it was well developed, non stereotypical, didn't overrely on physical/sexual attraction etc etc) I'd always assumed that Naruto didn't respond to Hina's confession because he himself was confused about his feelings. Not saying it excuses leaving her in the dark, but at least it's understandable. I hated how they made Naruto an idiot who only realised Hinata's feelings were serious through a genjutsu, when he's ALWAYS been fairly emotionally intelligent and LITERALLY it's how he was able to win the hearts of so many people, the Hyugas included. He is the farthest cry from the tsundere type,
I love nart i just hate how kishi dumbifies him as per his convenience
OH FUCK I completely forgot about this, sorry!!
I think I've made my feelings about Naruhina obvious in my other posts lol. I somewhat agree with your take, in that, I also do not like the way they dumbified Naruto, this part specifically--> "[...] when he's ALWAYS been fairly emotionally intelligent" Yeah like??? It's just a disservice to his character. Cuz what do you MEAN he thought Hinata loves him the way he loves ramen?? WHAT???? My boi are you fucking for real right now???? lmao but it's not his fault, it's the writers'/Kishi's fault for completely fumbling the romance in the manga/show.
But regarding that---I'm sorry, but I don't think Naruhina was well-executed. And that's coming from a former hardcore Naruhina shipper. The idea was there, and it was freaking adorable (hence why I loved it---cuz it had HUGE potential from the very beginning) but they didn't know how to make it work. And the longer the show went on and they did nothing with the pair (or any pair, save for maybe Shikatema), the more disappointed I became. They lacked screentime together, they lacked romantic development (Hinata was in love with him, yes, but Naruto wasn't, and we never saw him actively develop feelings for her or anything of the sort until The Last).
"Not saying it excuses leaving her in the dark, but at least it's understandable."
Yeah, it's understandable, but we can all agree that it's still pretty fucking rude to do so for 2+ years, right??? Bc Naruto didn't even acknowledge her confession---which she proclaimed in the middle of the battlefield, during a fight in which she could have very easily lost her life btw. He straight up ignored it. It just doesn't sit right with me. I'm not saying he should have gone and dated her bc at that point, Naruto was still crushing on Sakura and chasing Sasuke. But he could have said something to show that he at least appreciated it/her. Hinata deserved better, and Naruto didn't deserve this dumbification.
Hinata's character became solely focused on Naruto in Shippuden (I'd make that argument for mostly everyone, but we're talking about Naruhina here) and again---that's Kishi's/writing team's fault---which resulted in the audience not really??? Knowing much about her??? And this lack of understanding of a character just added more fuel to the hater . Unless you're a Hinata fan (and I mean a true fan, not the 'omg Hinata so loyal and innocent and she has big tits, she's the est waifu' fan) most ppl just won't look deeper than the surface of what the show offers. And believe me---there's SO much more to her character if one looks deeper. She's the firstborn of an old, prestigious clan, was neglected and abused from a very early age, the disowned heiress who found her true family in her team and friends. She has a younger sister she loves, so much so that she couldn't bring herself to hurt her, even tho she knew this was going to cost her her title and further the abuse of her clan. She's the girl who had to learn how to stand on her own two feet when her own family tried to push her down. She's a fucking ninja in a world where there's danger everywhere. And through all of that, she managed to remain kind---which is fucking brave af and shows a mental fortitude that you don't see often! I could go on and on. I love reading Hinata-centric fanfics that feature the Hyuga clan bc can you even imagine what this life does to a child? But did we see any of that being explored? No. Even though it would have made for a great character development---even tho she's the main character's eventual love interest.
Also, keep in mind, I watched Naruto while it was still airing on tv. Meaning, one episode per week. Imagine watching Hinata finally confess her love for him, and then waiting to see how Naruto will react... and waiting... and waiting... and waiting. And in the end---nothing. They needed to make a badly written movie at the end of the show to address it. I fucking LOVE Hinata, she's my fave, and I freaking adore Naruto, he's a happy goofball, and that's exactly why I'm not okay with the treatment she/both of them got and why Naruhina lost its charm for me.