Children Safety: Do you practice bad touches with your child innocently?
While playing with children, did you ever noticed if children also enjoy the way you play with her/him? Many times children do not like them pulled here & there or kicked or patted on their back or bums. Check next time when you play with any children.
Also, if you practice bad touches while playing with children as parents or well-wisher, then be mindful that your child may start taking all bad touches for granted, and cannot differentiate between good & bad. Also sometime they start enjoying it as well. Kids can not differentiate people good or bad intention as someone touches them, and starts tolerating such behavior due to their habit of such play with parents or well-wishers, and sometime get into trap which becomes difficult to recover. Remember, sometime children gets a habit of such touches then they start enjoying it, and some point of time as they grow they indulge into socially unacceptable sexual behavior in very early age. Then it becomes hard to control them as they would have been addicted to such touches/behaviors.
Very recently, I got to learn in my interact with one parent that her teenage son indulged into some physical behavior which is definitely a concern for parents and they have been exploring to get some help from counselor as it has started impacting his health & sturdy. When I started digging down the details in my discussion. I was told that she used to touch his gentle parts as massage in childhood when he goes to sleep; she continued this as he was growing up. Some point of time she realized & she stopped such activity. It was easy for her to stop as adult but the child was missing this experience as it had become his everyday habit. Children started demanding this from his parent, but she used to refuse and scold him but by the time it was too late and the child started exploring the options.
STOP doing any such practices or touches with your children thinking as parts of your love & care. Always practice good behavior/touches from beginning to avoid any future issues. If you are doing this without knowing the consequences then STOP before the child get consciousness as nature does. Remember, there could be some exceptions but mostly children stops getting breastfeed from mother before getting their consciousness. Lean from nature as well!
