#paramisic

This is paramisic and transphobic!!

(It's also paramisia but that's besides the point.)

This is kinmisia.

@thisisparamisia

(Agreed that it's paramisia. I'm a microraptor and I feel attraction to microraptors and like NO. I DO NOT think animals can consent bc ANIMALS CAN'T CONSENT! And even if they could, we simply DON'T have enough scientific evidence to progress intimacy safely. Like I didn't choose to be this way but I CAN choose to enact on any urges I have).

I have paraphiles (not explicitly one that makes me attracted to minors in any sense) and other things, but I would never act on being a predator just because in a past life I made such a choice without any compulsory reason.

idk if this makes sense but.

This is kinmisia and paramisia.

(This... This actually happens? Like ppl tryta "hold you accountable" for shit you did IN A FREAKING PAST LIFE?! That person IS DEAD! Ur a whole new person now! You don't have to make the same decisions that you did in a past life. Do ppl not know what free will is?)

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This is paramisic!!

I have? Several points to make here.

1- First things first. Nobody here is advocating for abuse. Please educate yourself on contact stances, particularly anti-contact/anti-harmful contact as that is the stance we follow here.

2- Many paraphiles (including yours truly) have been abused, groomed, assaulted, and/or taken advantage of in some way. For many that’s what caused a part of or all of their paraphillic attractions. Not all,but a notable amount. The people you are attempting to yell at are likely to be beings who have gone through that same type of abuse.

3- Just because you made the choice to replace your urges doesn’t mean everyone else who has a similar experience has to. You don’t want those thoughts? Cool,do what you want,it’s your brain. That doesn’t mean every single person with similar feelings dislikes them.

4- We are Radqueer critical. RQs are welcome here (given they are not pro-contact), but we are not one,never claimed to be one, and this account is not about radqueers whatsoever. Not sure why you felt the need to drag them into this too. Leave them alooone man.

4- I know you just essentially told us we deserve to die but. Genuinely you sound really fucking miserable and I hope you’re doing ok. Ok? 👍

But recently I found out that he’s been talking badly about me behind my back for 6 months, calling me a “freak”, “schizo”, “mental”, “insane” (which hurts even more because I’m psychotic), has been telling people my private information and sexual trauma, and has been making jokes about me being raped. Finding that out left me with a lot of pain and trauma, to the point that I think I split a new alter (I have a very high split tolerance so this is rare).

Then the other day, I found out why

This best friend of mine had gone off to another friend group, and I have a close friend in that group who I haven’t spoken to in a while. The close friend brought up my best friend, and I said we haven’t spoken in a long time and that I found out what he’d said about me. My friend said my best friend told him it was because I’m attracted to young children. I don’t know how this happened, I’ve never told anyone, but somehow, people found out. And anywhere I mention it, I make it explicitly clear that I would never act on it, and I also never use any of my real information online. None of my IRL friends have Tumblr, and my old best friend doesn’t use social media at all. So I’m very confused and hurt and scared, and I don’t know what to do.

Also we’ve written a book together so I’m terrified that he’ll change it and publish or post the story without my credit (because he now looks down on me for being a paraphile). This story is very important and personal to me, as it’s a vent story about my psychosis and trauma. But he kind of took it and made it his own thing, so I’m scared that he’ll publish something that has my trauma and personal information in it.

Also if this comes off anon somehow, please delete it

This is paramisic and sanist.

First off anon I’m so sorry about what happened and what u went through 🫂 Nobody deserves to have their trauma spread around and treated like a joke, or to be treated like less for being psychotic. That’s just. An outright POS thing for them to do,I can’t even convey it. I don’t know what goes on in some people’s minds for them to even consider that to be ok to do to ANYONE. We hope you’re okay or even just doing a little better.

Also the amount of?? Stalking??? They must have had to do to find out that your anonymous account was you. That’s a creepy thing to do even between friends. We’ve been cyberstalked before by someone we used to be close with and it’s just such a horrible betrayal. Ik we sound repetitive here but we really hope ur doing better.

Additionally if anything ever does come out of him about the book and you need it taken down,feel free send a message our way!! We’ll do what we can to help. /nf /gen