#outofpockets

//Oof, it’s been longer than I thought trying to come back here. But starting tonight I’m going to start working on replies on both here and @blxxdyquirk. I might drop some threads for the sake of my own sanity, but I’ll see what I can get done first before deciding what threads to stick with.

Okay so apparently there’s more drama about (that I’m not involved with this time thank god) and I just want to put my two cents in that...If someone tells you that you’re interacting with someone problematic make sure you:

Get both sides of the story. From the accuser, and the accused.

Keep an open mind about it. Think about the situation rationally and logically. Emotions only make it more difficult, and often lead us to making rash decisions!

Make sure there’s proper evidence. And again, make sure you get evidence from both sides. Normally the person trying to make their point will try to exaggerate the situation and make the other seem like the bad guy. They do that in order to justify themselves of course. But it doesn’t always mean they’re right.

Establish your own opinion! Just because someone says someone else is terrible doesn’t mean you have to listen! You can of course consider the opinion, but don’t take it for granted right away. Get to know that person and make your own judgement!

RESPECT OPINIONS AND REMEMBER THAT THEY ARE ONLY OPINIONS, NOT FACTS. It’s okay to not agree with someone, totally fine, just don’t bash on someone for not sharing the same opinion. There is NO reason why opinions should be counted as argument fuel unless it’s outright dangerous or toxic!

Not only are these important in terms of drama or whatnot, but they are also important in debates as a whole. You must get both sides of the story and understand both counter arguments. Then you have to think of the situation as a whole and consider both parties’ views before making a proper decision.

Me: //BURSTS THROUGH DOOR

Also Me: //can’t even type a single letter in the IM bc I’m too shy-