So for the past month and a half my girlfriend and I have been in a different relationship then most would agree with. She came out to me as Poly, which for those of you who don't know what that is, it's where someone has feelings both emotional and sexual towards more then one person. When she came out to me I was so excited that she felt confident to share that with me. But it came with a catch, she wanted to date someone else as well. One of her (close?) Friends had been kicked out of his place and was staying with us for a bit and she had grown feelings for a while. This was also the same two week period we were moving into a new apartment. She asked me if it's be ok with them saying whole we were still dating. I told her yes which was the start to the worst month of our relationship. Going back to now. We have worked through our problems, the other guy and I have become somewhat decent friends and mine and her relationship is currently at its peak. The main issue with it was everyone's outside opinions on it. If everybody either been supportive we wouldn't have had issues. It sounds bad but that's the only way I can put it. Anyways, point of this is people need to stop judging others based on their relationships, be nice and supportive you don't know what they are going through. Have a nice day.