#ooc:asks

100%   when   Amy   got   shot   and   he   replayed   the   moment   over   and   over   again   for   far   too   long   ,   pinpointing   only   those   crucial   3.3   seconds   and   beating   himself   up   over   what   he   could   have   or   should   have   done   ,   as   opposed   to   allowing   himself   to   grieve   in   peace   .   To   this   day   ,   he   still   blames   himself   and   though   things   were   rocky   with   Amy   at   the   time   ,   her   death   brought   any   differences   they   had   to   a   grinding   halt   and   he   found   it   almost   impossible   to   just   let   it   go   .  

        Actually a real life thing that happened for Joey regarding leather and a pair of leather pants that I think put him off wearing them ever again, aha. I keep it as canon because it happened so it’s a part of his story on here & all, ‘cause it’s more fun that way so it’s included in threads and mentions and everything else. It was only once— but I think it scarred him for life ; during an earlier performance in the late 80′s, a pair of leather pants he wore did end up with a tear in the crotch and the crowd started to scream and he didn’t know why until a little later on and then noticed that there was a hole in his pants showing off whatever he wore underneath it. (  muns opinion ; i don’t think he wore anything under his leathers but i could be wrong  ).

       A little bit of love and happiness, because that is severely lacking in certain areas of his life and it saddens me to see how glum he can be sometimes. Often, he can pull himself right out of those funks, but with how deep a wound it is, I worry that the longer it goes on and isn’t mended properly, the more frustrated he’s going to get. I would, actual physical gift wise, probably buy him the biggest box of doughnuts in Llandudno, which, although I have never seen this kind of gift-box, likely does exist somewhere around. He isn’t much a fan of toppings or the icing, however, so it would have to be the dainty sort found on Llandudno Pier, coated a little too much in sugar & prepping everyone for diabetes … probably not a good idea to gift him with that, but the thought counts. Would in time also like to give him another puppy, so both he and Dinah have more to occupy themselves with during those summer months, because he doesn’t have too many friends and is always spending time with his dog.

hi , nonnie 🌹i apologise on behalf of the non-existent muse page , but there are several reasons why i do not have one and the main reason is that i just haven’t had the time nor energy , nor the focus that would last long enough to type up 80 plus muses , as every character now on this blog has been placed in a multi because the total amount spans over eleven years & i admit willingly that i just haven’t sat down to work on a muse list yet . i have no rules page because i have no rules really , matters very little to me after so long . i am sorry you think that i sound entitled , i don’t appreciate that but i understand why it comes across that way . i am , however , in the process of working on that muse list , please bear with me . i’m sorry to everyone else also waiting on this .

       Roses will forever remind him of the delivery he received in ‘91 from a group of fans, but were gifted to him via the florist whom is now his wife. The fan bouquets he got that day were not roses but all manner of others— the roses were eleven in a spray and from the florist herself ; orange tones in colour, and she relayed to him that day the symbolism of certain flowers and what each meant. This was the first time he met her and chose to visit the florist in town several times before he managed to ask her out and he did it in the least romantic was possible because he simply slid a paper across the counter with his number on it and told her to call him anytime. She had to confide in her best friend, Colleen, to get some advice on how long she should wait before calling him and that she didn’t want to seem too rushed with it. A few days later, she dialled that number and he arranged to pick her up at her house a little after six in the evening, but ended up waiting outside her work for a half hour so he could also walk her back home to get herself ready ; she insisted on making sure she was pretty enough to go out, but he discarded her remarks about her appearance and said she was beautiful as she was.

            Upplands Vasby was home to him growing up, but since he has moved to the UK, he calls Islington home now and lives there with Hel and their two boys. (  this is actually verse dependent . some verses there are no children, some there is one and some there is both  ). there’s a pool at this location because joey loves the water and when he’s not out at the studio or on press tours, he’s relaxing in that. helene does spend a bit of time in there, too, depending on the strength of the sun and if it’s not too burny hot then she’ll stay drifting at the edges for a few hours or until she wrinkles like a prune. Joey understands the slight fear she has but he has always tried to coax her to doing different things when around water, including the ocean, going in deeper and in the summertime, putting proper swimwear on as opposed to baggy clothing as a security and safety strategy. He finds it highly entertaining that she’ll usually opt for sitting on the edge of the pool with her legs in the water — he has never backed down on splashing her or trying to pull her in though. The main feature of the home is probably the fountain in the front yard that is never without water and is never not running, even throughout winter. ( only once did it freeze right up and create a tiny ice slide for the birds through october to december but they have worked out how to maintain it properly now  ).