Oktigi's sexuality involving their hosts
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I often think about how Oktigis can straightup control their host's body as their own in a fantastical way, which in my mind to make it more fun it also includes access to their senses, essentially feeling, tasting, etc. through them.
When an Oktigi takes a new host they naturally become curious about what's going on down there and begin to explore and play, wether alone with their own hosts or with other Oktigis and theirs, it let's them try all sort of things which they happily indulge in. This part might even be a big selling point for some Oktigis looking for a new host, they may want a host they can show off or show off in, or with some very particular attributes they find most sexually exciting, an Oktigi may develop a preference for a particular species or type of individual.
Feeling through another body can lead to interesting experiences, especially in the case of living hosts. Oktigis generally get off on control, and as such they enjoy inflicting all sorts of negative and positive emotions and sensations on their hosts, they enjoy making them feel pleasure as much as pain, dread as much as ecstacy, and to be in charge of what both of them do and feel, they enjoy having control of their shared climax. Now an Oktigi can feel the climax of his host, and it's a strong unique experience, but they can also have their own climax, often simultaneously or in quick succession, they're greedy like that.
But Oktigis don't always have to be in direct synch and control of their hosts, sometimes they like to hop off and play around with them, each with their own body, more often than not with the host under restraint or sedation. Both experiences have the Oktigi in control of the situation, but sometimes, per their personal preference, they like to pretend they aren't and orchestrate the play accordingly.
It's easier for Oktigis to have intimacy without a host under water, it let's them move easier, and they tend to use this method for actual copulation, but on land they prefer to do it through hosts as they have limited movement by themselves. Some Oktigis may have a stronger preference for each case.
Some Oktigis may form a one sided attachment to their hosts through this, as the host can essentially become a sexual partner to them, often the only one for long periods of time. This attachment can be sentimental, romantic or purely sexual and tied to any other range of negative or positive emotions too.
In my mind, Sekto has grown quite fond of having a Steef as a host, including the sexual aspect, as they're pretty big and strong, but aside from it he's enjoyed indulging and inflicting himself upon a specific individual, the Old Steef, I think he really loves having him as a host, and because of how remote the place is from other Oktigis, the poor Steef
In my mind Sekto has developed a preference for Steef as hosts, they are big and strong and well endowed, not to mention rare delights (because of him). But beyond that he has developed a deep attachment towards the Old Steef in particular, unfortunately coming from a place of cruelty and the need to indulge and inflict himself upon him sadistically, as his conquered prized possession and object to feed his pride and ego. Oktigis by their parasitic nature aren't big on consent and inflict harm on a host but while there are more uninvolved and even a few kind of conscientious Oktigis there are also actively harmful ones too, I believe Sekto to be the latter type, especially from how posessive in a negative way he is.
Sekto's dam, where he seems to reside at exclusively, is far away from any other Oktigis so unfortunately for the Old Steef, he seems to be the only readily available sexual contact for Sekto to let out stress, frustration and negative emotions through, as well as to simply pleasure himself when needed or "earned". The old Steef has been through so much being Sekto's host, and I believe this is also a part of it.
