#notthebook

...especially when you have boyfriend who loves to tell secret to you.

And he always goes like this, "Bebb, I wanna tell you something but this is a secret so you should not publish it to the press." D'oh. Does he forget she's dating a journalist.

I love hearing secret, but to be honest, I'm not good at keeping one. Heheh. Does my boyfriend know about that? Of course. But he just cannot stop sharing secret to me. Ckck.

Like today, when he told me something about our close friend. Okay, I have to be careful here or else, boyfriend gonna get mad at me. Hahah.The fact is, I think it's an important information. Thus, I wanna help our friend from the problem he has. But I cant. Because it's still a secret. Aigoo this is frustrating.

Talking about secret, in my humble opinion, when you're in a relationship you should not keep a secret from him/her. I mean, secret about yourself and things that have something to do with your relationship. Not about anyone else. If you keep a secret, there's most likely something wrong with your relationship. I'm not a relationship expert or whatsoever, so maybe this is just my opinion. 

Me and my boyfriend, we dont keep secret to each other. We agreed to tell each other everything. When I went out with my office mate who is male, I'd tell him. Not to ask permission. I tell him that because I want to know that I appreciate him and make sure he knows that nothing happen when I'm with my male friend(s).

And he'd act cool and say something like, "Okay bebb take care". But I know deep down he doesnt like it. Hahah. That's why I dont often go out with my male friend, unless it's for work related. (Yaeyalaahh!).