Hello! I just wanted,, someone to discuss this with, if thats okay! I don't feel Uncomfortable with she/her pronouns so to say (afab), but it makes me happy to be referred with they/them pronouns. I am okay with using she/her, it doesn't feel Wrong, but I truly don't have a personal definition/connection with being a woman? If someone were to ask Why i felt like a girl, i would have no answer,,? I am just existing, haha! I like it sometimes, even. its just,,, complex? But aaa,, thank you!!
This is a completely fine and even common way to associate with one’s gender! It’s similar in many ways how I feel about my own ties to womanhood. You’re allowed to have your feelings and thoughts be as complex or as simple on gender identity as you please. Labels specifying it, like woman-aligned nonbinary, or gender non-comforming woman, may or may not resonate with you, now or ever. And you are always welcome to use this blog as a place to vent. <3