#not debunking

I'd like to apologize for the lack of posts recently. I know that this blog helps a lot of you but recently we've been burnt out. Not just that but a lot of the stuff said on SystemsCringe and FDC has been getting to me, and that's definitely not a good thing to happen

You're right, it's not legal (though it could be in Headspace, but not meatspace/ real life), but insys dating can be incredibly healthy. It can help with trauma as well as encourage stuff like integration (which isn't fusion, it's lowering amnestic barriers)

Welcome to debunkingsystemscringe, where we look at posts on r/SystemsCringe and similar places, and debunk the reasons why the poster/comments believe that a system is "faking" or "cringe"

This blog is currently run by the Neon Garden (@welcometotheneongarden, #neon mods) a monoconscious, introject heavy system, and the four winds collective (@killerrqueztt / @the-real-wispetzz ) #4windz mods , a potential P-DID fictive heavy system.

We aren't experts on plurality, so if we missed anything when debunking posts, feel free to reblog/send an ask if you want to add anything

DNI: If you think that all systems are inherently medical regardless of if they're disordered or not, anti endo, anti tulpa (the idea of tulpas specifically, if you're against the term that's fine)/willogenic/thoughtform or use ""demo systems"" to hate on the endogenic community, if you use the term "traumascum", if you use any subreddits we debunk or support their ideas, anti xenogender/neopronouns, transmeds, and TERFs

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i think one time i talked about how my emotional abuse was belittled and they actively say harmful phrases like '[x, that can be abuse in some situations] isnt abuse', because i personally struggled in wondering what i experienced was abuse or not due to it not being physical.

its often phrases like "being shouted at isnt real abuse/trauma" or "lol being grounded isnt real abuse/trauma" when depending on the situation, anything could be trauma. being shouted at or having arguments is scary, especially when youre a kid and parents are just a massive authority figure to you. and being grounded can be traumatic to kids with no other outlets, being alone, especially with abusive parents.

i wonder how many emotional abuse survivors have been tricked into thinking what they experienced is not abuse..

(.. sorry if ive sent asks about this before its just. so disgusting to have my trauma almost disregarded, like its lesser when its not a competition, why not just heal together instead of comparing. )

The stuff they say is just awful, and I'm sorry that you had to experience that

They say that DID is a trauma disorder but they belittle those whose trauma isn't "bad enough"

Not to mention they actively say stuff like "I wish that these people knew what it felt like to be starved, beaten half to death, neglected, and sexually abused all before the age of 5, then maybe these fuckers wouldn't do this shit" which like... ewewewewwww! Don't wish that on anyone!

And that's ignoring the fact that:

1) They practically fakeclaim anyone, regardless of origin, just for being "cringy"

2) Endos CAN have trauma

Systemcringe is a fucking plague. It made our host fall back into questioning and denial and it actually made our little doubt her own existence. Being able to show them your posts helps a lot - thanks!

- Shane