🌹❤ Understanding is not easy ❤🌹 "Love has to grow through misunderstanding. Understanding is not easy - it is very rare to arrive at understanding; because you are confused, he is confused, you don't know who you are, he does not know who he is. Then two confusions collide and two confused persons start manipulating each other, dominating, possessing. Nobody wants to be dominated and everybody wants to dominate. Nobody wants to be possessed and everybody wants to possess, hence the problem. And it is through these misunderstandings that slowly slowly you will come to see what you are doing: you are destroying the freedom of the other and the same is being done to you. Stop destroying the freedom of the other, be non-possessive, and immediately things start changing. If you are non-possessive you will make the other look at the whole thing again, and if you are really non-possessive you will become so happy that the other will start following you and wondering what has happened to you, why you are so happy, because he is so miserable. Possessiveness makes you miserable and possessiveness destroys and poisons all love. ~ #osho #oshoquotes #osholovers #understanding #understandinglife #life #lifequotes #love #lovequotes #attitudeofgratitude #attitudetowardslife #attitudetowardslove #properattitude #freedom #nonpossessive
