#non-binary masculinity

1. Priest vs Warlock: Legitimate and Illegitimate Magic

Indo‑European traditions assign two branches to men:

· Priest (flamen, goði) – works with the sacred to uphold cosmic order. His magic is public, clean, approved. He uses prayer and sacrifice.

· Warlock (warlock – “oath‑breaker”, cunning man) – works with power directly, often with chthonic or unclean spirits. He is always a marginal figure.

Stigma hit men when a priest “slipped” into sorcery. In Christian times, a male sorcerer was judged even more harshly than a witch if he was a cleric – his power was seen as a pact with the devil. Yet in folk culture, male healers were necessary but socially despised.

2. The Male Magician Outside Binary Frames

In archaic societies, the male magician often served as a mediator between worlds. The shaman (usually male, but with a female helping spirit) became “empty” – his bones were remelted, gender markers erased. Masculine power here is not domination, but the ability to be torn apart, to be permeable.

He also worked as a guardian of boundaries (door, forest, midnight). His magic is ritual “locking” or “picking”. Hence the link with smithcraft: iron strikes spirits, but the smith himself is half‑chthonic.

3. The Phallic Cult: Not a Weapon, But a Root

The most misunderstood aspect of male magic. In patriarchal culture, the phallus symbolises power, penetration, dominance – the spear. But in archaic cults (Vanir, Dionysus, Priapus) the phallus is a plough and a root:

· Phallus‑root grows into the earth, clings, sucks up sap. Its power lies in being immersed in the dark, wet, receptive.

· Phallus‑plough draws a furrow, but it’s not the man who pulls it – it’s the earth (or a partner, or a spirit). The man is an instrument through which fertility force flows.

In phallic cults, constant erection isn’t needed, and sex as conquest is irrelevant. What matters is vulnerability and offering – ritual ejaculation onto the soil, dedicating seed to the goddesses of fertility.

4. Why Male Sorcerers Are Often Outcasts, Not Leaders

In cultures where magic is considered “shameful”, the male sorcerer is socially dead. His power demands renouncing heteronormative authority – he cannot be a chief, often remains childless, or his children are “not his own”. He is not a “free artist” but a hostage of his gift.

The modern myth of “free male magicians” (especially in Neopaganism) often hides the opposite: they are forced into solitude because their practice frightens the community. But that solitude is not strength – it’s a leftover of stigma.

5. Archetypes of the Male Magician Without Rigid Frames

· Trickster (Loki, Hermes, Aengus) – breaks rules, laughs at the body and social norms. His magic lies in humour and surprise.

· Mediator (Odin on the tree, Väinämöinen) – sacrifices himself for knowledge. His power is stillness and the ability to wait.

· Husbandman (Freyr, Dionysus, Priapus) – his fertility magic is not aggressive. He fertilises the world with his seed, not conquers it.

· Guardian of thresholds (Hekate in her male aspect, the smith) – works with gates, crossroads, the dead.

6. What to Remember

A man in magic does not have to be a macho with runes on his biceps. He can be soft, slow, vulnerable. He may not fit heteronormative standards. His power is not domination but becoming a channel – a channel for the earth, for spirits, for fertility.

And yes: the stigma “sorcerer = evil” is still alive. But those who work outside formal structures know: real magic always lives on the boundary. And on the boundary, there’s no room for binary labels.

This post was translated using AI*

This post is based on my dialogue with AI (I often use it to throw in my thoughts because I can't discuss everything with real people for one reason or another) The information provided is just one of the conclusions from the dialogue.*