#nofcksgivenadvice

Yeah, I said it. Your trauma is real. Your pain is real. But guess what? Life doesn’t give a f*ck.

At some point, you either fix your sh*t, or you let it eat you alive. There is no in-between.

Nobody’s coming to save you. Nobody’s going to heal your wounds for you. If you’re still walking around blaming your sh*tty parents, that one ex, your high school bullies, or the universe for your misery?

Congratulations, you’ve made your suffering your entire f*cking personality.

🔥 The Truth Hurts, but It’s Still the Truth

I get it. Bad sht happened to you. Maybe even fcking horrible sh*t. And that wasn’t your fault. But staying stuck in it? That’s 100% on you.

Because here’s the reality:

💥 Nobody is going to fix your life for you. 💥 No amount of crying on the internet is going to change the past. 💥 There are two types of people—those who move forward and those who f*cking rot.

And I already know what some of you are going to say:

❌ “You don’t understand what I’ve been through!” ❌ “It’s not that easy!” ❌ “Some people really struggle with mental health!”

And to all that, I say: No fcking sht.

🔥 Healing Isn’t Easy—But Neither Is Staying F*cked

You think working through your sht is hard? Try being a **miserable, bitter, dysfunctional fcking wreck** for the rest of your life. That sh*t is way harder.

🔹 Being the person nobody wants to be around? Hard. 🔹 Self-sabotaging every relationship you enter? Hard. 🔹 Staying stuck in cycles of failure, anger, and regret? Hard.

You don’t get to choose what happened to you, but you do get to choose how you respond to it. And if your response is sitting in your own f*cking misery, waiting for the world to validate it?

💀 That’s on you.

🔥 The World Doesn’t Reward Victims—It Rewards Fighters

I’m not saying what happened to you wasn’t f*cked up. I’m saying the world doesn’t care.

Society rewards: ✔ The ones who rise above their sh*t. ✔ The ones who refuse to let the past define them. ✔ The ones who take responsibility for their own healing.

And before you twist my words—I’m NOT saying trauma isn’t real, or that it’s your fault. I’m saying you have to take ownership of what comes next.

Because if you don’t fight to heal, your trauma will win.

🔥 Let’s Talk Solutions (Since You Love Complaining So Much)

You don’t want to be f*cked forever? Cool. Start actually doing something about it.

✅ Go to therapy if you need it. ✅ Read books that actually help you process your sh*t. ✅ Cut toxic people the f*ck off. ✅ Stop using your trauma as an excuse to be a sh*tty person. ✅ Understand that healing is YOUR responsibility—nobody else’s.

And no, this isn’t some “Just be positive! Manifest it away!” toxic positivity bullsh*t. It’s about being real with yourself.

Do you want to heal, or do you just want attention?

🔥 Final Thought: Stay Stuck or Get the F*ck Up—Your Choice

At the end of the day, nobody can save you except you.

🛑 Sit in your trauma and let it ruin your f*cking life. 🚀 Or work through it, get stronger, and build the life you actually want.

You decide.