#no dates

Do you still see a future with him or do u fantasize nowadays about living a life separate of him?

It definitely has

And yeah, I don’t see myself spending the rest of my life with him. He’s a lot older than me and there’s certain things I want (like getting married, having kids, etc) that he doesn’t want, and even if he did, I know him well enough now to know that it would be a mistake to take those big steps with him. We have very different views on a lot of things.. we get along now only because Im willing to compromise to avoid arguments. Also, mentally/emotionally, I’ve moved on.. it sounds horrible saying it so plainly, but we’re pretty much just roommates now. I think he prefers it that way anyways, he has “friends that are girls” and his gaming friends so he’s pretty preoccupied with that.