So a new beginning is not something one can do for oneself. One can only pray for it to happen. As long as people rely only on themselves and try to live that way, that is still the old way, the same way as in the past. Only with God is there a new way, a new beginning. And we cannot command God to do anything; all we can do is pray. But we can pray only when we have realized that there is something we cannot do for ourselves, that we have reached our limit, that someone else must be the one to begin. ~Dietrich Bonhoeffer, "Beginning with Christ" in The Collected Sermons of Dietrich Bonhoeffer, ed. Isabel Best, 124.

Love yourself a little bit fucking more