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Hey there ❤️💕 oof I hope you won’t mind if I answer something that’s been nudging me for a while now a lil ;; just for everyone else as well if that’s ok? ❤️💕 promise I’ll get to Cancer Venus/Mars in 10th soon ❤️💕

About House Rulers and Houses  

Hm well first of all, unless you have aries asc – capricorn wouldn’t rule the 10th. The idea of 1st house = aries, 2nd house = taurus etc. comes from the 12 letters alphabet to help beginners learn/integrate already-mastered knowledge hopefully care/start on the houses (i.e. learning about the signs, planets, so ppl often mistakenly think that 1st house = aries = mars–  as most modern resources online would reference it without saying what it’s replaced.)

1st house=aries=mars is inaccurate/incorrect, unless you actually have aries asc in which case it would apply. But if your rising is in any other sign, then your ruler would be different. Each house govern would be different. The natural rulers/12 letters alphabet rule would be useless if we’re trying to learn about houses and how it functions, when the house rulership technique is not applicable to that formula (*again, unless you actually have an aries asc).

Thus why a lot of people tend to get confused as to why we need houses, if the signs/planets themselves are representative of them already. If Virgo is talking about the same thing as the 6th house – then isn’t the 6th house the same as Virgo’s quality/traits? It actually isn’t, not just because the functions of signs and houses are different from one another – but a lot of people get it confused because we often don’t really know what houses are used for. We’ll have to gently unlearn in order to fully comprehend the houses and the different things we can do with it.  

It actually do more damage long term, because we never realize how to utilize the houses’ significations. It takes away from so many things we could grasp with the houses, so we’d have to peel it back and unlearn a little bit that not all charts can assume the ruler of the 1st would be aries ❤️💕 

Also, that’s probably also why people may have a hard time understanding house rulership. Because we assume on one hand that 1st = aries as a natural thing, so when we try to learn how to find chart rulers, house rulers- we often think of it as a separate branch to things. By definition, house rulers refers to the actual ruler of the houses/its domains. The natural ruler/12 letters alphabet is well-intended, but it also hinders the progress of learning about houses.

So long explanation over (sorry about that) – let me actually talk about your Cancers now ❤️💕

Cancer MC + Cancer Venus/Mars 

let’s see. (btw i’m not a professional and i’m basing this on people i know & google knowledge i’ve earned over the months)

i actually don’t know many geminis but the one i know is a really close friend of mine. one of the kindest i know. generally you seem to always think of others first & you also have really good taste in fashion !! so Good people

AQUARIUS IS MY ABSOLUTE BABE. very compatible with libras too wink wonk .. hard shell but once you get through .best humans, will take care of you like a turtle. idk where that comparison came from. also one of the BEST artistic skills. i personally think your sun and moon fit really well together since they match in intellectuality and creativity.

scorpio is .. i don’t have a problem with them. but mm i think they’re not always open ?? maybe that fits with the hard shell of aquarius moon. but i think scorpios deal with some sort of internal conflict and even though they try not to show others it’s kind of visible ?? esp since it’s your ascendant maybe others notice that. but like i said, aquarius shells can break and when they do, you’re the best person.