#namelia

Mannn… if you actually take the time to look at Shawn’s and Niall’s dating history…. Where are these passionate songs coming from if you buy into the general public narrative 😭 Shawn’s literally supposedly dated 2 people 😭

And it didn’t start until 2017 😭 which albums are typically written A YEAR AT LEAST before they are released. Shawn Mendes Self Titled was released on May 25, 2018. Illuminate was released on April 20, 2017.

And then he’s singing about hoping someone will be by his side and being with someone “who cares if they approve”…. The media and fans were wanting him and C to get together… where are these obstacles of being together 😭

Niall’s dating history is so weird, like, don’t even get me started. It’s so full of PR and short bursts of being with someone?? Women who have even issued statements and denied when asked that they were anything romantic??? Where are all of these passionate songs coming from?? Who is he showing up at their door soaking wet? Where are these obstacles??? Wedding song???

Why is he needing to tell someone there’s “no judgement” (it’s romantic with a “mate and… you know”. No, it’s not about Harry please stop?) when they’re together??? Who is he missing so much he needs a “new angel”?? This Town: Who is he saying “if the whole world was watching I’d still dance with you” about”?? Why wouldn’t anyone he’s been with be accepted???

There’s so much that begs to be said about all of this. Shawn invalidating his whole discography (saying it’s all about Camila???) in his documentary still makes me so incredibly sad. That doesn’t make any sense. It doesn’t all line up, nor do the themes match up with his life history with her. Please 😭

Make it make sense. 🤨😭 whomever made him say that had no idea what they were doing. They expected the fans to just blindly accept what came out of his mouth.

I have talked with his fans who believe that he was writing so many songs about her… and to believe it, you have to think that he’s just sitting on the sidelines for years just pining away for her while she’s with other guys??? That doesn’t even match with his songs???

I know I’m going back and forth between the two but there’s so much of Niall’s that don’t make sense either. It starts with Barbara Palvin, who was starting out her modeling career who was connected with Niall in 2013-2014. If you don’t think he stunted, then what’s this?

Amelia Lily (yup another Amelia) 2011-2012. There’s later an article about her DENYING anything went on and that she was actually dating an electrician dude.

He was connected briefly with Ellie Goulding who would greatly benefit from the clout boost in Aug-Sept 2013. Meh. Standard music industry stuff.

Melissa Whitelaw, an Australian student, Feb-June 2015 so says a DM article. There’s papwalks complete with the weird backseat photos. Her looking out the window while Niall is awkwardly trying to cope with what he’s being subjected to, see below.

And there’s Celine Helene Vandycke, yet another student. This time she’s Belgian. They show up at events with his arm around her shoulders. They’re only together about a month or two in 2016. Again, here’s the customary car backseat photo published in DM.

And then there Hailee Steinfeld, in 2017-2018. Niall never confirms it but there’s really awkward (while walking across the street?? Like??? Wtf???) kissing pics that exist. She wears his merch. She shows up to a m&g during his tour. They “breakup” then the narrative is she released a song called “Wrong Direction” but denies it’s about him. (Great PR move, Hailee.)

Then it brings us to Amelia Woolley, pandemic lockdown lady. Met in Apr 2020, UK lockdown started in Mar. Dramatic story how they met in tabloids. Niall tore her away from her electrician boyfriend. They now do papwalks and she shows up at golf and events. Everyone forgets about her.

So….. I repeat…. where’s the kind of longterm love along the ways that’s sparked their work and matches the themes of their songs??? Please let me know if you find it???

I mean, honestly, it's about damn time. He's almost 28 and either because of weird fans, the girls he was dating or possibly his own comfort level he's never felt empowered to do it before now.

I can only surmise that Amelia was okay with it. She's private. She stays off SM with the exception of her personal group of people who she also keeps private. She seems grounded and happy and so does he.

Fingers crossed the crazies and the haters can keep their wackjob bullshit to a minimum. Even the most chill of people can get bummed with all the hate, lies and conspiracy theories. I just hope she's aware that it's got nothing to do with her and resists the temptation to peep what they're spewing. It's a mood kill and serves no purpose. If history has taught us anything it's that it doesn't matter who he dates....they're gonna be bitter, hateful, misogynistic, entitled, delusional and selfish.

She doesn't deserve that. Neither does Niall. They look so happy it would suck if psycho fans tainted it like they do everything that makes Niall happy. I don't get that. Why do they insist on shitting on everything that brings him joy? His golf company. His friends. His romantic relationships. Even his music and vision for his career are fair game for them to pick apart for some weird superiority complex that makes them feel smug and comfy. If their greedy ass isn't the center of his universe all of a sudden HE'S an asshole and anyone around him is the "reason" they aren't getting his full and undivided attention. Fuck. He's allowed to have a life beyond fans. Get over it.

Newsflash....maybe it's because he just gets sick and tired of all their negativity and needs a break and to be around people who love and care about him. But they don't want to have THAT conversation.

Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk 😆