#multiplemum

Most of the week I’ve been talking about leaving a legacy. Maya Angelou got it right. We need to leave a legacy that can’t be erased. But more than that we need to leave one that inspires our kids. That is leaving positive footprints on the world. It all starts with knowing what we value in life, what really sparks our fire. Creating goals & plans, having dreams to live your best life is a great place to start from. But what if we are struggling to see any kind of path In front of us. What if the load of motherhood is just too much to to even know where to start? Do you need someone to hold your hand, to be your champion, to give you some guidance? I support mums who feel out numbered by their kids. Who know they have to cherish every damn moment because all those posts tell you all the time. But are stuck in the chaos of being mum, running a house maybe even working. DM ME TO SEE HOW I CAN HELP YOU TAKE CHARGE OF THAT CHAOS. #motherhoodmentor #parentingdoula #mumoftwins #multiplemum #mumof4 https://www.instagram.com/p/CeAsjFKsL17/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

But who am I? I’m Nina A Spencer that’s who. Mum to two sets of twins, Nina A Spencer, Ninja to her friends is a mum to twins twice! Nina suffered through infertility, then eventually became pregnant with twins and found that motherhood wasn't quite the instaperfect life she had imagined. She developed Postnatal depression, found herself overwhelmed and lonely at times within motherhood. The house in ruin, relationships strained, mental health declining she had the "the mother of all panic attacks" on Christmas day 2014. This breakdown was the push she needed to get the right help, to build her "toolbox of wellbeing" They found they were pregnant with twins again. This time Nina faced her worst of times. She was diagnosed with #PlacentaPercreta, A rare, life threatening pregnancy complication. Using tools Nina picked up through life, within motherhood, mental health struggles & during her past roles: factory floor, hospitality, entertainments, and logistics she now mentors mums who are in overwhelm, hurtling towards burnout. She now holds the hands of these mums to help them create their own bespoke toolbox of wellbeing, give them guidance to take their home and relationships from breaking point to a life that is fulfilled and full of love and memories. #mumlife #mummyblogger #mumssupportingmums #multiplemum #mumoftwins#twinstwice https://www.instagram.com/p/CdsKiqtsVmI/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

You’ve heard the struggles I’ve had before. But I want to know what you struggle with. What you feel like you are failing with. What parts of being mum make you feel like you want to pack and bag and run away? Let me know in the comments. Send me a DM if you prefer. But I’d love to know, because I’m working on some free work books to help you stop wanting to run away and start stepping into your very best #mumlife #motherhood #twinmum #multiplemum #mumsofinstagram #mumssupportingmums #motherhoodunplugged #motherhoodthroughinstagram #mumsinbusiness #mumofgirls #mumofboys #mumoftoddlers #mumoftweens #overwhelmedmum #overwhelmedbylife https://www.instagram.com/p/Cc4keC5sX-k/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

Bank Holiday Monday Just For Fun. Tell me in the comments. #mumlife #mumoftwinstwice #twinmum #mumof4 #multiplemum #mumofgirls #mumofboys https://www.instagram.com/p/Cce3sCcM9Lt/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

I hope you e enjoyed getting to know me a little bit better over the past few days. If you are new here, new to my feed there is a “this is me” highlight in my profile. I’m enjoying stepping into my superpower and leaning into who I am. So for anyone just stumbling across me. I’m Nina A Spencer - The Chaotic Mum. Mum to two sets of twins. & step mum to a 22year old. I support, mentor and calm the chaos in motherhood. Working with Multiple mums, mainly (#twinstwice) however all mums welcome as I know that motherhood can be a challenge with any amount of kiddos. The work I do I’m passionate about as I can see the difference it makes when you can see life with clear focus, I want you to feel embraced, heard & understood & less overwhelmed with motherhood & life. This then allows you to live in the moment and embrace the Wabi-Sabi way of life. #twinmum #mumoftwins #multiplemum #multiples #mumofmultiples #mumofboys #mumofgirls #mumvillage #mumlife #motherhoodoverwhelm https://www.instagram.com/p/CbRyqWNsCeA/?utm_medium=tumblr