What being poly has taught me.
I don’t chase women, I’m too old for that shit.
I’m not a jealous person, I want you to be happy no matter where you are and who you are with.
I’m not possessive, you belong to yourself before you belong to anybody else.
I have zero interest in recreating the same relationship over and over…people are different and bring a variety of energies to the table. See them for who they are, not who you want them to be.
I am not polyamorous because I want or need more sex. I am polyamorous because I think LOVE is EVERYTHING and you have not met all the people that you will love yet.
Do I think monogamy is wrong? Of course not. It’s a beautiful thing when any two people decide to share a life together.
Does this affect my desire or ability to be a daddy?
Let’s run with each other and towards each other.
Let’s communicate our needs so that we can find support from each other, and others, if necessary.
You can absolutely be MY little one, and I YOUR daddy, in its own unique, special, and beautiful way.
These two world can and do coexist.