#month asks

January: What's your favourite month of the year?

February: Do you believe in soul mates?

March: How many languages can you speak?

April: What's your favourite joke?

May: Do you have any pets?

June: Do you like baths?

July: What was your favourite age?

August: If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you live?

September: What subject were you best at in school?

October: Biggest fear?

November: Favourite Holiday?

February: do you believe in soul mates?

I believe that people can have a special connection (romantic or non-romantic), like a very deep understanding of each other that goes beyond attraction and shared interests / world views /...

Sometimes people seem to click instantly and just get each other even if they haven't known each other for long, and I think that's beautiful.

But I personally don't belive that this sort of connection is determined by some kind of cosmic fate (or whatever one might call it). Because I feel like it's absolutely possible to have this kind of connection with more than one person.

february: describe your dream relationship

I once wrote a poem about this called “if I asked you to disrespect me, would you still respect me in the morning?” and I think that pretty much covers it.

(in other words, I want one dynamic in bed and another out of it, and I want both from the same person.)

september: how much schooling have you had?

after a long and winding road with a few detours, I am almost done with my bachelor’s degree!

January: What is something new that you have wanted to try/have tried? If you aren’t doing it, what’s holding you back? Did you like the outcome if you did do it? 

February: What is love to you? Try not to use the word “love” in your answer!

March: Where is your dream spring break vacation? Assume it’s all expenses paid and you could do anything you wanted; where would you be, who would you be with, and what would you be doing? 

April: What’s your favorite type of weather? 

May: Is there anything you’re looking forward to in the next few months? 

June: What are you proud of? 

July: What is your favorite way to celebrate something? All out, alone, with other people? Does it depend on what you’re celebrating? 

August: What, in your opinion, is the most pointless holiday on the calendar? 

September: Favorite school story? 

October: What’s your favorite Halloween costume that you’ve ever worn? If you could dress up as anything for Halloween, with nothing holding you back, what or who would you go as? 

November: When is your favorite time of the year to go shopping? Do you buy specific things during specific times of the year?  

Okay I don’t have a favorite joke because… my humor is much more witty and silly and situational BUT this one joke from a movie I loved as a child that did not age well lives in my head rent free:

If your uncle Jack helped YOU off an elephant, would YOU help your uncle Jack off an elephant?

Favorite joke....ah, maybe not my all time fave but never fails to crack me up:

How do you catch a special rabbit?

(🎣🎣🎣)

If you'd asked me about four months ago, I would have absolutely answered: no, I find it statistically improbable that out of 7 billion people, only one could be destined as a perfect complement to your own soul.

But I have become a hypocrite in the most wonderful of ways.