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to Mondo, Taka and Hifumi: ayo, Rohan here. You guys remember my last ask, right? Well guess who got himself a boyfriend and had his first kiss :D I don't know how but I did- anyway, can I get a celebratory hug?

Hey! That's pretty cool dude, it's great to hear that you've got yourself a partner. Course you can get a hug!

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Amazing, that's great to hear. A celebratory hug is always in order when something great like this happens!

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Of course I remember! It’s not often I get a recurring asker. That’s amazing news Mr. Rohan! I’m glad it happened to go so well for you! Yes yes, a celebratory hug is definitely welcome!

to Mondo, Taka and/or Hifumi: hi, I'm back, the trans gay guy who was surrounded by homophobic and transphobic bitches (but y'all can just call me Rohan like some of my other friends do-). So, I have been doing absolutely ~horrible~ since I sent in that first ask because I accidentally came out to my parents. It went as well as you would've assumed. I felt like I was going insane every time they would dead name me and misgender me- basically, my mum was like "young lady come get your dinner" and I accidentally just yelled out "I'm not a lady, I'm a guy" and they just stared at me. Then World War 3 started- they were yelling and my dad was trying to hit me and my mum was crying for some reason- and they were saying things like "you can't be a man that's not possible", "don't tell me you've turned into one of those delusional assholes", "you're still a girl and you always will be", and my dad started calling me "pathetic whore" and hitting me and they continued to misgender me, and then I cried like the pussy I am- yeah, it wasn't great. So uh, can I like, get a hug?

Yo Rohan, sorry to hear you’re surrounded by a bunch of disgusting people like that. I don’t understand why people are so against something that isn’t even harming them. 

Your dad sounds like a total asshole, what kind of guy raises a hand to his own child!? Only a coward does that, I should pumble HIS face in now that I know he tried to hit you. 

I may not know what the hell you’re going through personally but keep in mind that you’re not what they say you are. You’re a trans guy, there’s nothing to be ashamed of. Your parents are fuckin’ terrible, especially your dad for hitting you...man that just pisses me off. But before I get so angry, you can get a hug dude. Stay strong, alright? You won’t have to live with them forever. There’s something to look forward to.

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What kind of language is that to use towards your own child?! I'm shocked that you had to endure such abuses, let alone being misgendered. I'm sorry you have to go through that, but as Mondo said, you're not anything your parents claim you are.

There's nothing to be ashamed about. Being transgender, like being homosexual, is a lovely thing. What's the harm, you're not hurting anyone, and your parents shouldn't be so mean.

You're welcome to a hug from me as well; you have our complete support! Please keep that in mind.

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Hey there Mr. Rohan, things didn’t really go well, huh? Well, the good news is that none of what they said is true, and I’m sure you know that. There is nothing wrong with you and your feelings are valid and important. Your parents are just assholes! You’re not a pussy for crying either, it’s better than keeping all your emotions in, even if it is embarrassing. 

At the least, like Mondo said, you won’t have to stay with them forever. But while you do stay with them, make sure you are staying safe. I’m sure the others would agree when I say that keeping yourself safe is the biggest priority. Plus, you’ve still got all of your supportive friends that could help along the way! Oh, and you may absolutely get a hug from me, Mr. Rohan! It is the least I can do for you, after all.

for Kiyotaka, Mondo and/or Hifumi: um, hello there. I'm a trans guy and I'm also attracted to other guys, and, well, I'm pretty scared of coming out. My parents are both homophobic and transphobic, and so is, well, almost everyone in my class (I've only come out to my friends because we're all gay and one of them is also a trans guy). I remember one person who used to be in my class was beaten up for being gay, and my parents always talk about how "these people need mental help" and "are delusional". I'm tired of being misgendered and all that but, to be honest, I don't think I can come out to any of them. I know if I do, it won't go well at all. Um, can I have a hug please?

Coming out ain't the easiest thing to do, sorry that you're feeling afraid of even being able to express yourself. But luckily enough, things these days are pretty accepting. Unfortunately, there are a lot of pricks out there that are still transphobic and of course, homophobic. That really bites dude, I can't even imagine what kind of fear must be flowing through your body dude. Especially when your parents say disgusting things like people a part of the LGBTQ+ "needs help". I'll never be able to understand why people think that, what's so wrong about being in love with someone of the same gender? Or really, what's so wrong about being in love and being a part of the LGBTQ+...I don't fucking get it. You already know that pisses me off, right? It has to be obvious, I can't even begin to explain how angry I feel...

It angers me that you have to live in fear at the moment because you know that they're going to treat you like garbage. You don't even need to ask, of course you can have a hug bud. I know you need one more than ever. Being misgendered shouldn't be something that happens if it's making you uncomfortable, but I can also see why you're afraid. Really dude, I hope things improve and you're able to come out in some way. But...take your time, got it?

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I-I can't even begin to understand..how someone can be so horrid when it comes to someone coming out...why...no, how can be people be so cruel. Really, I understand Mondo's anger and genuinely understand his words. I don't normally get angered to a degree where I would want to hurt another but some people get far too close to tilting me towards that very point. Everyone should be allowed to be comfortable in whatever body they are in, going by what they desire...there's nothing wrong with someone being...happy.

DUDE! That's completely uncool, yea I've been showing up a lot more, haven't I?! Well, that happens when you've got someone pretty bad making another person feel that disgusting despair. I agree with bro! You deserve to at least take your time with coming out, whether that be now or whenever you're able to move out and be away from your parents. If I could give a few words to your darn parents...I would. And someone got beat up simply for being gay? This world is crazy these days...but dude, you can have a hug! Absolutely.

Yeah, I’d say you shouldn’t come out to them, I know it hurts to not be able to fully express who you are, but it’s best not to for your safety. One day, once you’ve moved out and feel safe, you could try to come out to them. Just make sure you come out when you are safe and comfortable. At the very least, you have friends who still support you for who you are!

Even though people do tend to be more accepting now, unfortunately there are still people who aren’t so kind. If they aren’t accepting, it isn’t worth your time to try and get them to understand. Don’t let others dictate who you are, because no matter what others may think, you are still you. You are valid the way you are. Any hurtful words they say should mean nothing, be confident in yourself! In the end, they can’t change you, no matter what! It may be difficult to hide who you really are, but it won’t always be this way. Just stay strong! Oh! And yes, you may get a hug from me, Mr. Anon!

Man, I'm back once more to wish the one and only Ryoma Hoshi a happy birthday! Damn, three birthdays in a row? That's so epic

You know the drill, my fellow cool guy. Got any plans? Can I have a hug, please? And here, have a cat-themed cake! Hope you like it.

~ Birthday Anon 🎊🎉🪅

Thanks, Birthday Anon. Honestly? I don’t have anything specifically planned, it’s just another day for me. I’m just not one to make a fuss of it. But of course, I’m not against taking that cake off your hands, it does look pretty nice. Ah- yeah, you can have a hug. It’s the least I can do in exchange for your wonderful cake.

To Hifumi, Teruteru and/or Ryoma,

Hey there! I think you guys are really cute! If it's fine with you lot, can I give y'all a hug?

Y-You think I’m cute? You flatter me! You may absolutely get a hug from me, I’d be honored!

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Oh? I don’t mind if you want to give me a hug, go right on ahead.

TW: Ghosting, depression, trauma

Hey, so I've been thinking about my first internet friend for reasons unknown. I dunno, it feels like anything around me reminds me of her. Even extremely minuscule things like lyrics in a song and stuff like that. She was pretty much the coolest friend I had. She was funny and smart and pretty and all of that mushy crap. Her and I had the coolest roleplays and stuff. But, one day she left without a word. I messaged her everyday, even staying up past my bedtime to even speak to her (She lived in the UK) and other stuff like that. To be honest, if I was in her shoes, I'd dump me right away. I roleplayed NSFW with her (we were both minors) due to my hypersexuality from my trauma, I bugged her all the time and I confessed my feelings to her on a Wattpad book. A freaking WATTPAD book! She was probably thinking I was a creep or something. She even deleted her account after messaging me out of the blue a year ago! I must have been a huge creep if I made her delete her account. And know I have abandonment issues with my friends because of me being an awful friend. This is probably the reason I'm now friendless IRL, too afraid to talk to people due to her and other things I will not be going into here. So, Hifumi, Teruteru, and/or whoever else is available, can I have a hug?

Just because you’ve done some not-so-good things doesn’t mean you’re a lost cause or anything! You seem to understand what you did wrong, which is good! I know it’s sad to lose all contact with a friend, but at that point you just have to move on and try to meet new people. I have hope that one day you’ll be able to make new friends as long as you don’t give up!

Don’t think I forgot about that hug! I’ll be here for as long as you want!

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Anon, I'm sorry you're feeling this way, but I truly believe you aren't a bad friend. Like Hifumi said, you understand what you did wrong, that's a good start to make sure you don't do it again! Friends will come and go, I know it's painful, but that gives you a chance to be able to make closer friends in the future, that stick with you no matter what!

I'd be glad to give you a hug since you asked so nicely! Don't give up Anon, I believe in you.

To Ryoma, Hifumi, or TeruTeru (I don't know what characters you have on here-)

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Hey, I don't really need advice rn, I just need.. comfort. My friends of 1 year kicked me out of the friend group, and they all refuse to speak to me, unless they're being assholes to me in my Discord DMs. I feel hurt, but I also feel like I deserve this.. I dunno, but yeah, how lovely, most of my friends have left me at this point. Am I just.. not supposed to have long-lasting friendships? I just needed to get this off my chest.. thank you for listening...

Just comfort? I can do that. Though I would like to say that you do deserve to have friends, even if you did do something bad. Anyone can improve and change for the better. I, of all people, know that very well.

I know you didn’t ask for a hug specifically, but I’ll still be here if you decide you want one. I get it, right now everything feels horrible, but with time and healing I’m sure it’ll get better, if not just a little more bearable. I’m sure one day you’ll find a great pal or two.

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As much as I’d love to give some advice, I respect that you’d rather have some comfort. Sometimes it’s just better to get emotional support, huh? Mr Hoshi did an excellent job with explaining how you deserve to have friends no matter what! I do want to add that it sounds like this wasn’t your fault, sometimes people just change for the worse. I’m sure as long as you don’t give up you’ll find some wonderful friends, but until then we’ll all be here to quietly support you!