hi, here's some additional boundaries of ours due to the parasocial behavior conversation; idea from similar posts like rabidbatboy's & mod jester's of rwuffles.
always feel free to send us asks, & comment or reblog our posts with, well, comments; these are our preferred forms of communication actually, as DMs make us avoidant. generally we will always prefer asks over DMs if you feel you need to DM us, no matter the subject matter.
we like gettin asked questions; about mogai specifically or about ourselves. we ask that you don't ask anything *too* personal, of course, due to our paranoia & avoidance.
please don't vent to us; we suck at comfortin others so it'll put us & you in an uncomfortable situation.
we like to be approachable, friendly, & kind to everyone we talk to, but we are all aplatonic in some way & do not consider others friends per se. we don't mind "friend" bein used, though. (typically we like to use "playmate" in place of friend, haha)
we consider everyone in the mogai community our equals, &, again, like to be approachable to our community members.
familial terms are okay if used casually; safest bets are neutral or masculine ones.
while most of us talk excitably, some headmates (includin me) talk more "bluntly" or flat, which might result in our tone seemin rude due to the contrast; rest assured that is not the case, & if you need clarification of our tone always feel free to ask.