#mod espie

I wanted something more specific than that, but less specific than like, *gendered* orientations, or things that can have a gendered connotation. Anything with a specific gender even like, generally common use connected to it gives me mad dysphoria, like gay - a good word, just REALLY not for me personally. I get homo has......other connotations, but heck I'll take it over the dysphoria, u feel? 2/2

mod audi said you’re probably looking for these

https://beyond-mogai-pride-flags.tumblr.com/post/177311648565/i-designed-a-homo-flag-this-includes-all-forms

We’re not entirely sure we understand, so feel free to send another message if this doesn’t help!

I think you might be looking for something like omnigay

Omnigay: Genderfluid, with one’s attraction to other genders changing with one’s gender so that the individual is always attracted to the same gender.

Yeah they seem to be the only one claiming to be professional, and saying it’s okay; if they really are a trainer I would NOT trust them around my animals, if that’s the type of shit they’d be okay with doing to my dog while in their care. It’s not even a situation of “exaggerated claims” or whatever; you could have shown me that video with NO title and I would have called it fucked up.

I definitely will, thank you for the recommendation! Sleep tight.

Did you not read anything that was typed or

Not everything is black and white, and happens easily as the spoken word. This isn’t a fairy tail.

My cat was a rescue, she had most likely been abandoned by her people and had a litter of kittens. She learned out to fend for herself because she had too. She also loved the outdoors; she’d get highly upset when we wouldn’t let her out when it started getting too cold, and would get antsy when spring came about. Anxiously waiting for us assholes to let her back out. So we weren’t some irresponsible cat owners that socialised her to be outdoors; she came to us that way because her previous owners abandoned her (probably because she got pregnant).

And I know what you might be thinking, “you could have stimulated her in other ways!” We could not; she didn’t like playing with us, she wouldn’t even look at toys we got her let alone play with them. We fucking tried getting her to do shit but she wouldn’t, because she didn’t like it. It would have been fucking cruel to keep her inside when in her young age, her only joy was going outside.

So it wasn’t me making a “justification for having outdoor cats”, it was me stating the facts about the situation; the situation being that people like you (yes you), jump to conclusions because they think they’re the #1 expert on every single cat and cat owner out there. You proved my fucking point, good job.

So instead of being a smug, condescending, judgemental little bitch, next time try not making assumptions about people and their knowledge of something. It really doesn’t make people want to listen to you, remember: you catch more flies with honey than vinegar. :}