#misty rambles

Warriors who does make Wild think of the army. Wars makes Wild think of the worst nights of his life without meaning to. Wars moves and talks like the knights Wild knows, but the knights Wild knows are HORRIBLE.

Wild Recognizes that Wars is NOT those knights. He Recognizes that Wars isn't trying to dredge up the past. He Recognizes that while he hates how effective Warrior's Captin's Voice is that Wars rarely uses it on purpose and that sometimes its good that there's that voice.

Warriors who looks at Wild and sees so many lost soilders who were still hopeful. He sees Wild and he Recognizes that the champion IS smart, and strategizes even if Wars can't always choose the same strategies. Wars looks at Wild and sees all the traits the army crushes out and is maybe even Jealous of how much easier it is for Wild to let himself have emotions. (Wether Wild actually has it easier around feeling or not is up to interpretation but Wars IS on the outside looks in...)

Wars KNOWS he can depend on Wild to step up if things go south and the plan goes out the window. He knows Wild is kind, adaptable, and capable even if he doesn't agree with all the decisions. Wars Knows Wild isn't trying to dredge up the past.

Give me Warriors and Wild who (while accurate or not) see eachother as mirrors of the past... but maybe hope for the future.

Warriors is not just a good knight and hero. He's a good and loyal man. He's got lots of integrity, and he's a good leader. Wild appreciates that most of the time, warriors can be trusted to help pull everyone through. Wild admires the easy (EXTERNAL) confidence and the ability to plan in such detail.

Wild is not just a bit of a free spirit who adores adventure, he's a kind and hardworking man. He's canonicaly good with kids (see both LU comic when he's around Wind AND Totk where we learn Wild was a teacher), he's friendly, and he's incredibly fast on his feet (physical and mental!). Wars admires his wilderness survival skills and his ability to put people at ease. The captain appreciates the work Wild does.

Give me Wars and Wild who admire eachother. Yes, they cause unpleasant memories sometimes, and yes they both Certainly annoy eachother because some of their personality traits clash a bit, but they Care about eachother.

Wild and Wars may not agree on strategy but they're able to see the value in the other ideas. They may not be best friends, they may argue over tidyness sometimes and they may even argue about authority and how far that extends bur that dosen’t mean they don't care.

For every bad memory, there's a gesture to help.

For every clash and argument there's still the trust that they want the best for eachother and the group.

Even with the distance that may very well exist between them, they are still brothers, and they are still able to step in for each other.

Wars almost never under estimates Wild. (Critical observation.)

Wild rarely puts everything on Wars. (Independence.)

Also if Wars found out about the way Wild usually (fanon?) ended up selectively Mute and in the army PRE CALMITY, the captain would have a FIT.

Give me Wild and Warriors who stay up together on the worst nights and maybe they don't have some great big philosophical conversation but they are there for eachother and a reminder that the army DIDN'T take and break everything.

This is NOT an angry post or meant to belittle. This is me talking to you about things I wish people had talked to me about and explaing why smut if MDNI

This is also NOT an invitation to follow this blog as a minor. This post is a single exception, I still do not want minors to follow me or interact with ANY other post here.

I want to start this by saying that I recognize that once I put my work out, I don't get to control who sees it. I know that by posting my smut/ NSFW works, I run the risks of minors finding and consuming it.

However, while I don't get to control who sees it I do get to control how I let it be interacted with. I have the ability to block ageless blogs or blogs that are clearly marked with the age of a minor. I have the ability to keep my Smut/ NSFW works on a side blog to help those who don't want to see it be able to enjoy my SFW works in peace.

I'm not sure how many people have actually talked to you about why so many creators are so against minors interacting with and consuming their works. So I will.

Sex, arousal, and kinks are natural. I'm sure you took a health class about the sex stuff even if the kinks weren't covered. I'm not here to shame you for your interest in that. As long as everyone involved consents there is no issue, but you'll notice most smut is marked Minors Do Not Interact. (Which is the creator saying they do NOT consent to your interaction.)

Something that everyone, of any age, should know and understand is that a LOT of the time porn and smut are written to be sexy, but not exactly realistic. Most male genitalia will NOT be 18 inches, that's terrifying in a realistic setting and probably dangerous.

A lot of the time porn and smut will focus on a market or niche and while there's nothing wrong with that it should NOT be your introduction to or education about sex. Sometimes something seems sexy in theory but just isn't in reality but if the only real expose you have to sex is porn and smut, you might be holding the experience to unrealistic standards.

The first time you have sex is never going to be perfect. Nobody is amazing their first time. And sometimes the porn and smut world makes things seem easier and safe than they are.

Bandage, especially suspension bondage, can be dangerous. Breath play can be dangerous. You can tear when having penatrative sex. These topics aren't often covered in smut or porn, and while that is usually to make things sexier if they're your only education, it can be dangerous.

Also, as someone who was in spaces I should not have been in, sometimes as a minor on the internet you will find people who want to hurt you or use you. It is not a pretty topic, but it's the truth. And while a lot of time you'll find NSFW creators actively discourage minor interaction sometimes you find predators that make you feel seen. It's hard to feel suspicious when someone makes you feel seen.

I want all of you to understand that there are boundaries around age and sexual content for reasons. It isn't because everyone over eighteen hates minors, or because we think you're stupid.

The boundaries are there to try to help protect you and ourselves alike. We don't want minors being taught about sex by the porn or smut medias and we don't want to be put in a position to EVER make it easier for predators to hurt you.

If ALL NSFW creators started encouraging minors to interact or even just tolerating it, it would get a lot harder to identify those with bad intentions.

There are other reasons as well for other creators. I can't say my viewpoint is the only one.

Frankly I don't want minors interacting with my works for all of the above reasons but also because it feels weird. I refuse to write about minors because they're kids. It seems wrong to let minors interact with my smut if I won't write them into it.

Finally I recognize that you're going to do what you want anyway. I will continue to block minors and ageless blogs that interact with this account outside of this single post.

If you're going to engage in sexual activity of any kind, please do some sort of research. Regardless of my discomfort with minors consuming smut, kink, or porn it is more important to me that you are safe.

Condoms are important whether you can get pregnant or not. STDs are a thing.

Kink should be researched and properly negotiated to where everyone participating is consenting and comfortable. Safe words or signs are important and should be respected.

You have the right to tell people no.

Now, I hope that this explains things to you all in ways that makes sense. None of this is meant to belittle you. These are all things that I wish I'd been told.