if there's a skill that submissives should learn, it's how to make *dominance* sound appealing. like, we all know what's appealing about being submissive. we all make a dozen submissive experience posts a day, but learning what's appealing about dominance makes it really easy to hammer those things home for those dominating you.
how she loves the little noises you make under her fingertips, how she loves to watch you struggle against the bonds she's wrapped you up in, how she feels when you've taken all the punishment she can give and you still curl up on her like you love her dearly.
learn what makes it fun for dominants and give that to them, don't just assume that they're having fun just cause you want something