trying to be grown up and see things from all perspectives. and at least i can say i am doing that because i could look past stuff and in a way move on even though you don't think you did anything to me in the first place, well others can even attest to that. but there are always going to be two sides to a story and i honestly can say that i may have done somethings wrong. but if you can't say you are wrong too, if you can't move on, and think everythings still my fault then you still need to grow up...i guess what people are still saying about you is correct.