Going to a wedding without an explicit partner that like knows me is terrible because I don't have an idea of like these weird elaborate random dance moves they expect me to do randomly in a group.
Especially with people from a city I'm not from, like they have their own "culture" for this and I'm out and immediately makes me look like a dumbass or like someone who can't dance or whatever. Makes me feel like laughing stock. It's just embarassing, and even more so when it's people I'll then see evey day at work.
Also, I'm in the mentality to like be dancing as a group and then someone pulling me over to do some spontaneous pair dance like I know some choreography makes it even worse, like I'm not expecting to do a couple/paired dance (and it's not like I know what this person is expecting from me) when I go as a group and the sudden quick time event just makes me go stiff or not able to process it instantly, but that's just my autism speaking I guess.
Overall it's just a bunch of small stupid interactions which I know just don't matter in the long run and will MAYBE be a one-time joke next time in the office but at the same time I can't help but feed it leaves a lasting impression of me I can't just shake off.
Just kills my mood for the night really.
