#midweek message

One being the ability to stand your ground on important issues, and have great staying power regarding what really matters to you. Two, acknowledging when a conflict isn’t worth the energy or time. You may experience a conflict with another person or within yourself during this period, but this is reminding you of your wisdom. 

The question can often come to: How important is this matter to me, truly?

Followed by a potential curve ball: Do I just want to be right? (in other words, is my ego reacting)

If you are experiencing conflict within, this card is suggesting confidence building activities, so that you might feel easy enough to let certain fears or judgements go. In terms of standing your ground, this can even mean to set boundaries with yourself. An example would be: acknowledging and seeing when you tend to spiral in a bad place mentally, so you create an inner boundary of disallowing yourself to follow that mental path, by focusing on something that makes you feel productive and proud of yourself.

You have the power to courageously stand up for yourself and others, in a way that teaches wonderful boundaries. You are capable of amazingly respectful communication that brings in more of the same attitude. If others disagree with you and cannot meet this amazing level of decency and manners, it is not worth your energy or engagement. 

Boundaries are really standing out with this card, with hints of it stemming from lack of confidence/self esteem. The more you feel you deserve, the more willing you become of enforcing boundaries and refusing certain behaviours. If you feel you are being mistreated whether personally, professionally etc, this is confirming you are worth much more than what is occurring. This may take some bravery, but this will reflect the love and care you have for yourself.

You can peacefully say your part in situations,with no focus on dominating the conversation or “winning”. There is great power in this, and you are invited to exercise it.