#mental asks

I am really glad it helps people!

it’s just because I found out that accepting helps you alot in life.

because being angry or sad the entire time will not change the fact that you either are autistic or chronically ill. (or other mental issues for that case and other diseases). Why spend an eternity being upset if it will just make my time that I have worse. And if I can make others feel at least a bit more comfortable, I’d love too.

trust me I am still very insecure and carry alot of shame and guilt (mainly for being disabled but not visibly disabled tho) but I choose to surround myself with people who make me feel better and make me forget it at times, or make me feel protected while not in an overly protected way either.

So you are very welcome and you are perfectly abnormally normal! 

I think everyone wants those thoughts gone.

but yes it happens, but then I calm myself down with confronting myself that it is just my mind, I know it does it, and whenever I start to do it, I’ll tell myself like, “here I go again ffs” but I calm myself down with also saying if it happens, it will but of all the times it happens, out of how many times did anything happen like my mind tried to make me believe.

ip basically means “interest person”, it’s somewhat similar to the fp (favourite person) of people with bpd? not completely though.